[Improvement] use sqllite or h2 or dinky server database to cache db data and mertrics data

[Zzm0809]

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Description

en:

Currently, paimon is used as a cache medium for data source information and monitoring data. However, paimon's strong dependence on hadoop leads to a series of dependency and data problems that need to be optimized.

• Option 1: Use spi method to expand and add new cache media of type sqllite or h2
• Option 2: Directly use sqllite or h2 to replace paimon

cn:

当前使用 paimon 作为数据源信息和监控数据的缓存介质和监控数据存储介质,但是 paimon 强依赖 hadoop 导致一系列依赖和数据问题, 需要优化,且目前会导致内存泄露
方案一: 使用 spi 方式进行扩展新增类型为 sqllite 或者 h2 的缓存介质, 默认优先使用 dinky 服务的数据库存储介质
方案 二: 直接使用 sqllite 或者 h2 替换掉 paimon

Are you willing to submit a PR?

• Yes I am willing to submit a PR!

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[Zzm0809]

已完成 #3613