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The woman alleged that since her marriage in January last year her husband and inlaws used to beat her up and demand dowry ofRs.
Harassed for dowry a woman allegedly committed suicide by hanging herself here.
A yearold woman was allegedly burnt by her husband and inlaws in Old Malda police station area on Friday.
Delhi Chief Minister Arvind Kejriwal on Tuesday said his government will plan a campaign involving people to fight against the menace of foeticide and dowry.
Police has filed an FIR against five persons including the husband of a woman four months after she was allegedly murdered over a dowry demand here officials said today.
The Madras High Court Wednesday ruled that money demanded by a man from his inlaws for doing business does not come under the category of dowry.
Enraged over dowry demands a yearold woman called off her marriage to a government teacher scheduled for next week.
A Khap Panchayat was held in a small village of Bhagpat. The Panchayat was held to sort out the matter of dowry which a boys family demanded from the girls family. The Panchayat successfully sorted the case out by Penalizing the boys family. Watch the full video to know more.
No third child after the birth of two daughters and only Re. to be taken by the groom as dowry from a girls family. These were among a host of rulings given out by a Khap Panchayat here to discourage the practices of female foeticide and dowry.
An FIR has been filed against former Bihar chief minister Jitan Ram Manjhis daughter regarding her daughterinlaws death in Gaya district police said on Monday.
Kerala girl Remya Ramachandran called off her marriage after groom demanded dowry.
A group of youngsters in Nawabpet village of Telangana have decided to launch a campaign against the dowry menace.
This Week Dr. Subhash Chandra Show was conducted at Birla Institute of Technology Mesra Patna in Bihar with an all Women Audience from Patnas Magadh Mahila College.
A strange form of dowry demand even before marriage has come to surface. The demand is not for a house car gold orlakhsof money the grooms family allegedly demanded a nudeselfieof the bridetobe for their son and said only then the marriage would get consummated.
A yearold woman was burnt to death by allegedly her inlaws over dowry at Purmali village in this district police said.
Radhe Maa who was questioned by the Mumbai Police at the Kandivali Police station on Wednesday in connection with a dowry harassment case is believed to be married to a person called daddy who has found mention in the statement given by the victim.
The controversial godwoman Radhe Maa who has been accused in a dowry harassment case was questioned by Mumbai Police at Kandivali Police Station on Wednesday.
In a fresh trouble for selfproclaimed controversial godwoman Radhe Maa a petition filed in the Bombay High Court on Tuesday sought a direction to the police to lodge an FIR against her for alleged cheating obscenity and hurting religious sentiments.
Selfstyled godwoman Radhe Maa who was questioned last year in connection with a dowry harassment complaint filed by a woman has not been named as an accused in the case a senior police officer said today.
In a shocking incident a yearold woman was allegedly raped by her husband and his two brothers who tattooed expletives on her forehead and hand after her family could not fulfill their dowry demand in Alwar district the police said today.
First they beat her so badly that she fainted. Then as she lay unconscious the young womans body was marked with seven crude tattoos in different parts each an abuse.
Woman Allegedly Commits Suicide In Faridabad Case Lodged Against Husband InLaws
Harassed for dowry a woman allegedly committed suicide by hanging herself in Faridabad.
The Supreme Court while upholding a high court verdict that sentenced a man to five years in jail for torturing his pregnant wife which eventually drove her to suicide said the story was a reminder of the untold miseries of young women in matrimonial homes.
A man allegedly killed his yearold wife for dowry by pushing her into a canal while clicking a selfie in Sardhana area of Meerut police said today.
Around women were either killed or committed suicide due to dowry harassment between and Union Minister Maneka Gandhi said today.
In a bid to discourage ostentatious marriages Pakistans Punjab province has passed a law banning serving of more than one dish display of fireworks and dowry during the wedding ceremony.
In her suicide note a yearold in Delhi wrote that her husband used to beat her like a devil. Priyanka Kapoor a former model was found on Saturday hanging from a fan in the apartment she shared with her husband in South Delhis Defence Colony.
A new commercial is winning praise for challenging more than one obsolete tradition related to marriages in our country.
Cops have registered an FIR in the case. The estranged couple had initially filed for divorce on the grounds of mutual consent but Karisma withdrew her consent stating Sunjay had failed to meet certain financial commitments established in the consent terms
Furious over his greed and demands for dowry a yearold woman called off her marriage to a government school teacher.
Enraged over dowry demands a yearold woman called off her marriage to a government teacher scheduled for next week.
An year old girl in Maharashtras Latur reportedly committed suicide to save her father a poor farmer with a one acre farm from having to pay dowry for her marriage.
In a tragic incident a yearold girl from Latur district who was academically bright committed suicide so her poor farmer father doesnt have to pay dowry for her marriage.
The Delhi Assembly on Wednesday passed a resolution that members of the House will not indulge in exchange of any kind of dowry for wedding of their children and relatives.
Woman Allegedly Raped Multiple Times by BrotherinLaw Tortured for Dowry in Faridabad
A yearold married woman was allgedly tortured by her inlaws for dowry and raped multiple times by her brotherinlaw in Faridabad police said.
In a relief for controversial selfstyled godwoman Radhe Maa the Bombay High Court today granted her prearrest bail in a dowry harassment case.
Former Delhi Law minister Somnath Bharti broke down during questioning by investigators who today took him to his Dwarka residence where he came face to face with his wife in connection with the dowry harassment and attempt to murder case.
As soon as we reach the bungalow in Borivli where Radhe Maa had been given the entire fifth floor by her follower Sanjeev Gupta we are asked to tie a handkerchief on our heads. When we asked why we should cover our heads Radhe tells us This is not for me but to pay respect to Devi Mata as this is her temple.
Radhe Maa selfappointed godwoman stepped out of the Kandivali police station in suburban Mumbai fourandahalf hours after she had gone in for questioning in a dowry harassment case today. Police sources said she was asked questions.
Dressed in her trademark bridal red and with a trishul or trident in hand Radhe Maa went into Mumbais Kandivali police station for a questioning session that lasted nearly fourandahalf hours. The yearold selfproclaimed godwoman has been named in a dowry harassment case.
There have been a flurry of complainants against selfstyled Godwoman Radhe Maa but the chances of her arrest remain rather bleak.
Radhe Maa who calls herself a godwoman has grabbed national attention with an array of controversies and eyecatching pictures on social media.
Have No Complaint Against Anyone Says Godwoman Radhe Maa After Being Booked in Dowry Case
She may have found herself embroiled in a spate of controversies ranging from dowry harassment to being a fake Guru but that does not seem to have dampened selfstyled Godwoman Radhe Maas spirits.
The miniskirt controversy is not the only issue dogging selfstyled godwoman Radhe Maa. There is a police case against her as well for inciting a family to demand dowry. Besides a Mumbaibased lawyer has lodged a complaint with the police accusing her of being a fake guru who encourages her followers to kiss and hug her.
A First Information Report or FIR was registered against selfstyled godwoman Radhe Maa after a woman accused her of instigating her inlaws who are her followers to demand dowry.
A total of dowry deaths have been reported in the country in past three years with maximum of them occurring in Uttar Pradesh with deaths.
The divorce case of Karisma Kapoor and her estranged husband Sanjay Kapoor is getting ugly. Every ot.
Greater Noida Aug In an alleged dowry death a woman was found hanging from a ceiling fan in Roh.
This article originally published by Neon Tommy was written in response to USG.
In yet another shocking case of cruelty against women a young mother in Birbhum was burnt alive allegedly because she was darkskinned and her husband and inlaws wanted a new bride with a fairer complexion.
A yearold woman was allegedly burnt by her husband and inlaws in Old Malda police station area on Friday.
Former BSP minister Hiralal Kashyap has alleged that the city lawyers have refused to take up the case of his daughter who allegedly committed suicide due to dowry harassment.
The arrests came after an FIR was registered under SectionsAandBofIPCand Section of Dowry Act.
Police suspect that Delhibased pub owner Nitin Chawla who has been arrested for domestic violence and dowry death after his socialite wife allegedly committed suicide hid details of his life from her including about a rape case he was facing when they married in January.
A yearold woman was killed allegedly by her husband and inlaws over dowry in Jawaharnagar village here police said today.
A yearold woman was killed allegedly by her inlaws over dowry at Mewla Maharajpur area here police said today.
A yearold woman and her infant daughter were strangled to death allegedly by her husband and inlaws over dowry demand in Mehmoodabad area here police said Monday.
A yearold woman was burnt to death allegedly by her husband and inlaws over dowry demands at Khanpur village here police said Tuesday.
A yearold woman was allegedly poisoned to death by her husband and inlaws when she refused to return her wedding gift to them at Kakroli village here police said Monday.
A yearold woman was allegedly killed by her husband for dowry in Kotwali area here police said Tuesday.
The Gujarat High court on Thursday upheld the conviction of a man and his mother in a dowry death case observing that demanding money for starting a business was as good as demanding dowry.
A man allegedly killed his wife and buried her body in an agricultural field in a village here before ploughing the ground to avoid suspicion.
A yearold woman was allegedly beaten to death by her husband and inlaws after she failed to fulfil their dowry demands police said Wednesday.
Locals along with family members of a woman who died allegedly in a dowry case on Tuesday blocked a national highway for more than four hours protesting against the laxity of local police in the matter.
A local court has sentenced three members of a family to years of imprisonment in connection with a dowry death case.
The Thane police arrested four members of a family here on Tuesday including a couple on charges of allegedly harassing a young married women and forcing her to end her life under duress for more dowry the police said.
A housewife was allegedly set on fire by her husband and inlaws and killed in her marital home at Khardah in the northern fringes of Kolkata police said on Saturday.
Relying on circumstantial evidence the Bombay High Court has confirmed life sentence awarded to a man and three members of his family for killing the formers wife and dumping her body into a well.
Bihar Indias thirdmostpopulous state with the countrys poorest people has a crime rate .
If you want to know how civilized a culture is see how it treats its women.
Greater Noida Aug In an alleged dowry death a woman was found hanging from a ceiling fan in Roh.
Priya Vedi an anesthesiologist at the prestigious All India Institute of Medical Sciences AIIMS i.
by Antara Mason This is not just a feminist documentary in actuality its a statement documentary.
Triple Talaq Via Post Jaipur Woman Seeks Supreme Courts InterventionMay
Selfstyled godwoman Radhe Maa who was questioned last year in connection with a dowry harassment complaint filed by a woman has not been named as an accused in the case a senior police officer said today.
In a shocking incident a yearold woman was allegedly raped by her husband and his two brothers who tattooed expletives on her forehead and hand after her family could not fulfill their dowry demand in Alwar district the police said today.
First they beat her so badly that she fainted. Then as she lay unconscious the young womans body was marked with seven crude tattoos in different parts each an abuse.
Woman Allegedly Commits Suicide In Faridabad Case Lodged Against Husband InLaws
Harassed for dowry a woman allegedly committed suicide by hanging herself in Faridabad.
The Supreme Court while upholding a high court verdict that sentenced a man to five years in jail for torturing his pregnant wife which eventually drove her to suicide said the story was a reminder of the untold miseries of young women in matrimonial homes.
A man allegedly killed his yearold wife for dowry by pushing her into a canal while clicking a selfie in Sardhana area of Meerut police said today.
Around women were either killed or committed suicide due to dowry harassment between and Union Minister Maneka Gandhi said today.
In a bid to discourage ostentatious marriages Pakistans Punjab province has passed a law banning serving of more than one dish display of fireworks and dowry during the wedding ceremony.
In her suicide note a yearold in Delhi wrote that her husband used to beat her like a devil. Priyanka Kapoor a former model was found on Saturday hanging from a fan in the apartment she shared with her husband in South Delhis Defence Colony.
A new commercial is winning praise for challenging more than one obsolete tradition related to marriages in our country.
Cops have registered an FIR in the case. The estranged couple had initially filed for divorce on the grounds of mutual consent but Karisma withdrew her consent stating Sunjay had failed to meet certain financial commitments established in the consent terms
Furious over his greed and demands for dowry a yearold woman called off her marriage to a government school teacher.
Enraged over dowry demands a yearold woman called off her marriage to a government teacher scheduled for next week.
An year old girl in Maharashtras Latur reportedly committed suicide to save her father a poor farmer with a one acre farm from having to pay dowry for her marriage.
In a tragic incident a yearold girl from Latur district who was academically bright committed suicide so her poor farmer father doesnt have to pay dowry for her marriage.
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The illegal custom claims the life of one woman every hour with many of the victims burnt by their husbands family.
A woman dies every hour in India due to the demands placed upon her family as a result of the dowry system according to figures from the countrys National Crime Records Bureau.
This is an age old custom where the wifes family has to hand over endless amounts in cash and gifts at the wedding and beyond to secure her wellbeing.
It is illegal and the punishments are severe but the number of cases is on the rise in a country that continues to grapple with the issue of violence against women.
Most of the victims of the dowry system die in the most painful way burnt by their husbands family.
Neha a yearold motheroftwo was treated in the intensive burns unit of a hospital in Delhi after suffering deep burns over almost half of her body.
She said her inlaws threw gasoline on her and set her alight. Doctors said it will take another six months before the bandages can be removed from her body.
It got worse when my daughter was born. I never thought they would do this to me they would beat me up and throw me out of the house in the middle of the night. But I never thought they would try to kill me by burning me.
The case is being investigated and four people are in police custody. Neha is now looked after by her parents at their home on the outskirts of Delhi.
Her father Virender Yadav said he did everything possible to make sure his daughter was safe but never imagined the situation would get this bad. He wants the severest punishment for all those involved in the attack.
Seema Mishra said she saved herself from unbearable misery when she left her husbands home with her eightyearold daughter.
She said the demands made were beyond her fathers means. This resulted in physical violence and harassment which caused her to lose her first child. Unable to cope and in fear for her daughters life she left.
Her case has been in court for five years now and Seemas family have poured their savings into fighting it.
Since an estimated women have been killed due to dowries. But the worrying factor has been the increasing numbers of such deaths and dowry cases registered by the NCRB.
Kamla Bhasin a womens rights activist for more than four decades told Sky News she was shocked by the rising numbers and believes there is a direct correlation with Indias economic progress.
Its really linked to greed of money and its linked to patriarchy. Traditional patriarchy is bad enough. This combination of capitalist patriarchy is lethal she said.
The system has farreaching effects on Indian society. It is the primary reason for female foeticide and infanticide. Activists estimate female foetuses are aborted illegally every year.
For many families it is the boy who brings in the riches while a girl continuously depletes it.
Its not the uneducated or tribals that practise this but the affluent societies in large cities and towns of the country. And all this for the want of money.
The horrific Delhi bus gang rape and murder of a yearold student in December led to unprecedented protests across the country.
Under pressure from the public the government passed tough laws aimed at protecting women. Fast track courts were established to try cases of violence against women and punishments were increased.
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Bihar Indias thirdmostpopulous state with the countrys poorest people has a crime rate .
If you want to know how civilized a culture is see how it treats its women.
Greater Noida Aug In an alleged dowry death a woman was found hanging from a ceiling fan in Roh.
Priya Vedi an anesthesiologist at the prestigious All India Institute of Medical Sciences AIIMS i.
by Antara Mason This is not just a feminist documentary in actuality its a statement documentary.
The court decision prohibiting immediate arrests under IPC Section A meets the need for safeguards against false charges and enjoys the support of many including a budding filmmaker. But does it come at a greater risk to genuine victims Shoma Chatterji explores.
From Aug published with support from Oorvani Foundation a champion of publicfunded media for the new India.
Now there was talk about Nirupomas marriage. Her father Ramsundar Mitra looked around hard but could not find a suitable bridegroom for her. Finally he heard about the son of a big landlord a Raibahadur. Although the ancestral estate of the landlord was now considerably reduced there was no question about his aristocracy.
The prospective bridegrooms party demanded a promise of ten thousand rupees and considerable other goods and utensils. Without much thought Ramsundar agreed to all demands a boy like him should not be allowed to slip through.
But how could one raise so much money After mortgaging some and selling some of his possessions he was still short by six or seven thousand rupees. On the other hand the date of the marriage was drawing closer.
Finally the day of the marriage came. A man who had agreed to loan the remaining amount at a very high interest failed to turn up at the appointed time. A great hubbub arose during the marriage ceremony. Ramsundar fell at the feet of Raibahadur and begged Let the auspicious event be completed. I will surely pay you the remaining amount. Raibahadur replied If the money is not in hand the marriage cannot be solemnised.
When the news of this misfortune reached the inner chambers the women started wailing. The central cause of the unhappy event was sitting in silence decked with ornaments sandalwood paste splashed across her forehead. It cannot be said that she felt much respect or sympathy for her wouldbe inlaws.
In the meantime the situation eased a little. The bridegroom suddenly turned against his father and told him I do not understand anything about buying and selling about bargaining I have come here to get married and I will get married.
The father turned to the person next to him and said You see sir how boys behave these days There were a few elderly people around who said Theres no teaching of religion no teaching of morals these days so
The Raibahadur stunned by the evil consequence of contemporary education that he saw in his own son sat down in silence. The marriage was somehow solemnised in a cheerless manner.
When Nirupoma was leaving for her fatherinlaws house her father held her close and could not hold back his tears. Niru asked him Wont they let me visit you father
And Ramsundar replied Why wont they I will bring you home myself.Ramsundar often visited his daughter in the house of her inlaws but he was not respected in that house. Even the servants looked down upon him. In a small room outside the main building he sometimes saw his daughter for a few minutes sometimes he did not.
Such humiliation from a close relative could not be borne for too long. Ramsundar resolved to find a way to repay the rest of the money.
But he was finding it difficult to bear the burden of the loan that was already heavy on his shoulders. There was little money to meet the expenses of his household and he was constantly employing devious strategies to avoid his debtors.
In her fatherinlaws house Nirupoma suffered constant humiliation. Listening to indignities hurled against her father and crying copiously standing at the door had become a daily routine for her.
Her motherinlaws anger seemed particularly irritating. If someone said Ah what beauty What a pleasure to behold such beauty she would immediately huff What nonsense Her beauty matches exactly the house she comes from.
Nirupoma was not even given enough food to eat or clothes to wear if some neighbour dared to mention it her motherinlaw would cry out Enough In other words if the father had paid the full amount the daughter would have received full care. Everyone behaved as if she had no right in that house that she had somehow tricked them into allowing her to enter that house.
Perhaps the illtreatment and all the insults suffered by his daughter finally reached Ramsundars ears. So he started thinking about selling his ancestral homestead.
But he kept this a secret from his own sons whom he was about to make homeless. He had planned to rent a house after he had sold his own and run his own affairs in such a way that his own sons would not know anything until he was dead.
But his sons came to hear about it and they all broke down into tears. The opposition of the three older sons who had children of their own was particularly vehement and so the selling of the house was put off.
Ramsundar started borrowing small sums of money at very high interest from various sources. It was becoming impossible to make ends meet.
Niru had only to look at her fathers face to understand everything. Poverty and worry were clearly stamped on the old mans thin face his white hair and shrunken frame. When a father has sinned against his daughter can his sense of guilt be hidden from her
In the few moments that were occasionally granted to Ramsundar to meet his daughter the fathers broken heart was evident to the daughter in the smile with which he greeted her.
Nirupoma became extremely impatient about going home for a few days so that she could console her distressed father. The sight of her fathers sad face made the distance impossible to bear. One day when she met her father she pleaded Father take me home once please. And Ramsundar replied Okay.
But he felt as if he had no strength left it was as if he had relinquished the natural right of a father over his daughter for his inability to pay the pledged amount. The embarrassment of begging even for a sight of his daughter made the articulation of a second request doubly difficult.
But how could a father be heedless to a daughters desire to revisit her own home Let the history of how much insult loss and indignity Ramsundar suffered to savesome three thousand rupees before applying to Nirupomas fatherinlaw remained untold.
Ramsundar wrapped up the banknotes in his handkerchief tied the handkerchief to his shawl and appeared before his inlaw. With a smile on his face he first talked about his neighbours. He gave an elaborate description of the big robbery at Harekrishnas house he compared the two brothers Nabinmadhab and Radhamadhab praising the intelligence and character of the latter and condemning the former he talked absurdly about a new disease that plagued the city. Finally laying the hookah down he said Ha ha it is true I still owe you money. Every day I think of bringing it over but I forget every time. You know I have become old. With that elaborate introduction he brought out the three banknotes with a show of much casualness almost indifference. When he saw the three thousand rupees the Raibahadur burst out in derisive laughter.
Thats all right I dont need it he said and referring to a wellknown Bengali proverb he added that he did not want to soil his hands with such a petty amount.
Who could talk about his daughters visit after such an incident But Ramsundar simply thought I can ill afford to allow myself to be embarrassed by my relative. Deeply disappointed he sat quietly for sometime and finally broached the topic mildly. Without offering any reasons Raibahadur said It is not possible now. And he walked away.
With trembling hands Ramsundar tucked the notes inside his shawl and went straight home without seeing his daughter. In his mind he resolved never again to go to Raibahadurs house till he had paid the entire amount and reestablished his right over his daughter.
Many days passed. Nirupoma sent one messenger after another to her father but still he did not come. Finally hurt by her fathers stubbornness she stopped sending mesengers now Ramsundar was hurt even more by his daughters action but still he wouldnt go. When the month of Ashwin arrived Ramsundar said I will bring my daughter home this Puja or He took a solemn oath.
On the fith or sixth day of Puja Ramsundar again tied a few notes inside his shawl and set off. A fiveyearold grandson came up to him and inquired Grandpa are you going to buy a pushcart for me For days he had been wanting to go on a pushcart ride but it had not happened. A sixyearold granddaughter said I dont have a single good dress to wear to the Puja.
Ramsundar knew that very well and had thought much about it while he puffed on his hookah. He had sighed countless deep sighs when he thought that his daughtersinlaw would only display their poverty in the few ornaments they would wear when they go to Raibahadurs puja feast. And this only helped to deepen the furrows of old age on his forehead. With the piteous cries of his povertyridden household still ringing in his ears the old man entered his inlaws house. Today he didnt feel his habitual embarrassment. The shy and hesitant glances that he usually cast on the servants and guard no longer showed on his face and he entered the house as if it were his own. He was told that the Raibahadur was not in he would have to wait for sometime. Unable to control his elation Ramsundar met his daughter and tears of joy flowed down his cheeks. Both the father and daughter cried together and none could speak. Moments passed and then Ramsundar said This time I am taking you home my girl. There is no more difficulty.
At this time Ramsundars eldest son Harmohon suddenly entered the room with his two small sons and said Father you have thrown us into the streets now.
In a rage Ramsundar cried Do I have to go to hell for you Wont you let me choose the right path for myself Ramsundar had sold his house. He had arranged to keep this fact hidden from hs sons but somehow they had come to know about it this irritated and enraged Ramsundar.
His grandson held him round his knee and looked up at him. Grandpa did you bring my pushcart
Grandpa stood silently with his head bowed and the child turned to Nirupoma. Aunt will you buy me a toy car
Nirupoma understood the entire situation and said Baba if you give a single paisa more to my fatherinlaw you will never see your daughter again. Here let me touch your body and say it.
Ramsundar said For Gods sake my girl dont say such things. It is an insult to your father and an insult to you if I cant give him the money.
What can you do if they dont Please dont come to take me home anymore.
With his hands shaking in agitation Ramsundar flung the shawl into which the notes were tied over his shoulder and walked back home averting the gaze of all like a thief.
The news that he had come with the money and gone away without giving it at the command of his daughter did not remain a secret. Some curious eavesdropping servantgirl revealed the news to Nirus motherinlaw and she was furious when she heard the news.
For Niru her fatherinlaws residence had become intolerable. Her husband had gone away from home soon after marriage to take up his post as a Deputy Magistrate and her inlaws had banned her from the company of her relatives lest such association bring about a degeneration of her character.
At this time Niru contracted a serious illness. But of course her motherinlaw could not be completely blamed for this. Niru herself was very negligent towards her health.
During the chilly Kartik month she slept with the window beside her bed open all night and in the winter she hardly wore warm clothes. She had no regular meal times. Sometimes when the servants forgot to bring her food she herself never opened her mouth to remind them. The belief that she was nothing more than a slave in an alien household dependent on the will of others was firmly taking root in her mind. Her motherinlaw found even this attitude intolerable. When she noticed that her daughterinlaw was indifferent towards food she would cry out Oh are you a nawabs daughter that you cannot eat the food from a poor mans house Sometimes she would say Just look at her look at her Everyday she looks more like a piece of charred wood.
When her illness became really serious Nirus motherinlaw said She is just being childish. Finally one day Niru simply told her motherinlaw I would like to see my father and brothers once.
Her motherinlaw said This is just an excuse to go to your fathers house.
Nobody will believe that the first day a doctor was summoned to see Niru was also the last time the doctor saw her that evening she breathed her last.
The death of the eldest daughterinlaw was observed by an impressive funeral. Just as the Raychowdhurys had become wellknown throughout the district for the grandeur of their puja observances so now the Raibahadurs became famous for the last rites of their daughterinlaw. None in this region had seen a funeral pyre built of sandalwood only the Raibahadurs could have organised such elaborate preparations for the sraddho feast that followed the funeral. It is rumoured that even the Raibahadurs fell into a little debt.
In consoling Ramsundar everybody gave elaborate accounts of the grandeur of his daughteers funeral. In the meantime the District Magistrate wrote I have finalised all preparations so please send my wife to me immediately. And the Raibahadurs astrologer wrote to him Son we have negotiated a marriage with another girl so take leave and come home immediately.
This time the dowry was set at twenty thousand rupees to be paid at the time of marriage.
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In dowry death cases were reported across India meaning a bride was burned every minutes according to statistics recently released by the National Crime Records Bureau.
A decade earlier this number was but climbed to dowry deaths in .
Dowry although banned by law in but never seriously enforced is an ancient tradition prevalent amongst most Indian families.
With prosperity burgeoning after the early s when Indias statecontrolled economy opened up to a free market system this pernicious custom became more acute with greedy grooms backed by their families seeking to get rich through their hapless brides.
But if a bride refused to satisfy incessant demands by her husband and inlaws for money and goods despite having brought with her the mandatory dowry at the time of marriage she was subjected to inhuman treatment.
Thereafter the luckless girl was either starved administered frequent beatings or simply jailed inside her bridal home and denied all contact with her family.
If her family either declined to pay or were simply unable to do so many inlaws in connivance with their sons forced the bride into an flammable nylon sari doused her with paraffin and set her alight claiming she had caught fire whilst cooking.
In the early s such dowry deaths became so commonplace climbing up to even five a day in the federal capital New Delhithat antidowry activists forced the government in to change prevailing laws stacked against the bride.
Consequently all such deaths by burning within seven years of marriage were deemed unnatural and cases of murder were immediately registered against the husband and his parents.
The brides dying statements were also treated as inviolate evidence a move that led to a reduction in the number of such cases soon after the law was first passed.
It also takes decades for the simplest of cases in Indias overloaded courts to be decided after which the litigants invariably file appeal petitions leading to further interminable delays and denial of timely justice.
Three years ago Indias Supreme Court declared that no mercy should be shown to those found guilty of burning brides for not bringing adequate dowry.
On one hand people regard women as devi goddess on the other hand they burn them alive. This is against the norms of civilised society. Its barbaric former Justice Markandey Katju remarked in response to an appeal filed by a husband handed a life sentence by a Sessions court for burning his wife.
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Official figures from Indias National Crime Records Bureau reveal that young women many of them new brides were killed in socalled dowry deaths in . The report comes amid growing concern over the level of violence against women following the Delhi gang rape case last December.
The number of deaths is marginally less than in but reflects a broader increase in gender violence. While dowry deaths fell slightly from to the number of cases of cruelty committed by husbands and their relatives increased significantly from in to last year. Many of the cruelty cases are believed to be dowryrelated and many dowry killings are preceded by cruelty by the husband and inlaws.
Although the payment of dowries for marriage is illegal in India they remain widespread across caste class and educational divides. In recent years demands have become more insistent and expensive.
One of the dowry deaths last year was Pravartika Gupta who was burned to death in her bedroom as she slept with her oneyearold daughter. She had been threatened by her inlaws because her family could not afford to speed up their schedule of payments. They had agreed to pay in cash and buy a Honda City car for their soninlaws parents. The inlaws had suddenly demanded that Pravartikas family also buy them an apartment.
According to the Bureaus latest figures charges were brought in per cent of the dowry death cases but the conviction rate was just per cent. In cruelty cases the conviction rate is only per cent.
Vrinda Grover a leading lawyer and womens rights campaigner said the figures proved that crime against women is rampant in India. She said dowry death cases can only be registered up to seven years after marriage which means most of those killed were young women and relatively new brides. Grave violence is being committed against young women in their matrimonial homes and the low conviction rate shows the legal system is not geared up to investigate and prosecute these cases she said.
District Administration tightens Security around Eidgahs in Muzaffarnagar
A citybased doctor has been booked by police for allegedly demanding Rs lakh dowry before his marriage for pursuing a higher medical course.
A probationary IAS officer has been booked for allegedly demanding dowry from the family of a senior police official in Bhopal to marry their daughter.
Family members of a man should not be implicated in a dowry case just because their names have been mentioned in the complaint without any specific allegation levelled against them the Supreme Court has said.
Police said that the woman got divorced from her first husband about years ago. She then got married to Rafiq in September .
Doctors treating Rehana Biwi said she has suffered around per cent burns and that her condition was critical.
Culture Minister Kapil Mishra discusses it was hightime for a resolution against dowry and how a pledge against the practice taken by legislators in the Delhi assembly Wednesday will make a difference.
Uttar Pradesh is followed by Bihar and Madhya Pradesh with and deaths during the same period.
Police said the woman who was married to Azharuddin in was subjected to physical and mental torture by her inlaws who demanded dowry from her.
The young woman reportedly wrote a letter before her death has been found in the flat police said.
The couple reportedly had fights as the mans family demanded dowry from her police said.
Police said when they arrived at the scene the body was lying in the courtyard.
The same study took a look at other crimes against women including outraging modesty and harassment for dowry.
Investigative and legal processes should address the unequal context that dowry laws operate in.
The court let off the bureaucrat with a warning that violation of any of this could lead to cancellation of his bail.
The body of the victim has been sent for postmortem and a case has been registered against her husband.
Northeast states registered zero cases despite an increasing trend of dowry cases in rest of India.
An exservicemans newly married daughter was allegedly assaulted by around personsmost of whom were her inlaws.
Police in India have rescued a woman whose husbands family allegedly held her captive for three years because her parents failed to pay enough dowry.
Gunja Devi was dressed in tattered clothes and looked very scared the officer who rescued her told BBC Hindi.
Dowries have been illegal in India since but the practice is still widespread. Thousands of women a year are killed in dowryrelated disputes.
Paying and accepting dowry is a centuriesold South Asian tradition where the brides parents gift cash clothes and jewellery to the grooms family.
Campaigners say the practice leaves women vulnerable to domestic violence and death.
Gunja Devi was allegedly detained by her inlaws in Darbhanga district in the eastern state of Bihar police said.
She was rescued after her father Shyam Sundar Singh complained to the police that he had not been allowed to meet his daughter for the past three years. She has now been handed over to her father police said.
It is unclear why it took so long for the alarm to be raised and for her to be rescued.
Gunja Devi was married in and her family has alleged that her torture escalated when she gave birth to a girl in a culture where boys are valued.
According to reports in the local media the rescue operation took place more than a week ago and photos at the time showed Gunja Devi appearing bedraggled from captivity dressed in tattered clothes with unkempt hair and overgrown nails.
Her plight emerged in Indias national media only on Monday with reports that she had been confined in a dark and dingy bathroom and was given very little to eat.
Police official Seema Kumari who carried out the rescue operation did not confirm whether Gunja Devi had been locked in a bathroom.
She immediately asked for her threeyearold daughter and wept inconsolably when the child could not recognise her the Press Trust of India quoted the police official as saying.
A police complaint has been lodged against Gunja Devis husband and her inlaws. They were taken into custody but later freed on bail reports said.
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District Administration tightens Security around Eidgahs in Muzaffarnagar
Indias Supreme Court has said that women are increasingly misusing the tough antidowry law to harass their husbands and inlaws.
The judges said the law was enacted to help women but it was being used as a weapon by disgruntled wives.
The court has now ordered the police to follow a ninepoint checklist before arresting anyone on a dowry complaint.
Correspondents say dowry offences are a serious issue in India where more than women are killed every year.
Paying and accepting dowry is a centuriesold South Asian tradition where the brides parents gift cash clothes and jewellery to the grooms family.
The practice has been illegal in India since but it continues to thrive and campaigners say it leaves women vulnerable to domestic violence and even death.
To prevent dowry deaths and harassment of brides in their matrimonial homes India introduced a tough antidowry law Section A of the Indian Penal Code in .
A complaint under the law allows for immediate arrest and jailing of the accused often the husband and his family members but campaigners say the provision is frequently misused with many women filing false cases.
The fact that Section A is a cognisable and nonbailable offence has lent it a dubious place of pride amongst the provisions that are used as weapons rather than shield by disgruntled wives the twojudge bench of Justices CK Prasad and PC Ghose said in its order on Wednesday.
The simplest way to harass is to get the husband and his relatives arrested under this provision. In a quite number of cases bedridden grandfathers and grandmothers of the husbands their sisters living abroad for decades are arrested it added.
According to the National Crime Records Bureau statistics nearly people including women were arrested over dowry offences in but only of the accused were convicted the court said.
Expressing concern over the misuse of the law the judges ordered the police not to automatically arrest an accused but to go through a ninepoint checklist to satisfy themselves about the necessity for arrest.
And if the police make an arrest a magistrate must approve further detention of the accused the court ruled.
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In a major step to end rampant misuse of the antidowry harassment law the Narendra Modi government on Wednesday said it is planning to make the offence compoundable which will permit compromise and settlement between both the parties at the trial court stage itself.
This will be done by amending a specific provision in Section A of the Indian Penal Code IPC.
At present as the offence is noncompoundable men and their relatives framed in large number of cases by their wives or her family members simply for extracting money face harassment at the trial court. They have to move the high court concerned to get their cases compounded.
In Delhi the misuse is less as the police are cautious after my ruling that there cannot be any arrest without the permission of the DCP and I limited the powers of the Crime against Women CAW cells who were lodging many cases themselves. They used to illegally summon and order arrest. I ended the tyranny by ruling that CAW cells have no power to take coercive action. The proceedings of these cells are not judicial or quasijudicial nor can they issue summons to appear before it. That power remains with the judiciary. In other northern states the less said the better about the police conduct said Dhingra.
The plan to make the offence compoundable was announced by Minister of State for Home Affairs H.P. Chaudhary in the Rajya Sabha.
A draft note for the Cabinet which inter alia seeks to amend section A of the IPC making it compoundable has been sent to the legislative department ministry of law and justice for drawing up the draft Bill he said. The move comes a year after the Supreme Court said the law had become a weapon in the hands of disgruntled women.
Expressing concern over the misuse of the law the apex court had directed the state governments to instruct police not to automatically arrest when a case under Section A of the IPC dowry harassment is registered but to satisfy themselves about the necessity for arrest under the parameters laid down flowing from Section of the Criminal Procedure Code.
It is a provision under which a husband his parents and relatives can be booked for subjecting a woman to cruelty to meet their unlawful demands dowry. Generally the husband his parents and relatives are immediately arrested without sufficient investigation and put behind bars on nonbailable terms. Even if the complaint is false the accused is presumed to be guilty until he or she proves innocence in the court. The maximum punishment if proved guilty is imprisonment for three years.
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District Administration tightens Security around Eidgahs in Muzaffarnagar
A citybased doctor has been booked by police for allegedly demanding Rs lakh dowry before his marriage for pursuing a higher medical course.
A probationary IAS officer has been booked for allegedly demanding dowry from the family of a senior police official in Bhopal to marry their daughter.
Family members of a man should not be implicated in a dowry case just because their names have been mentioned in the complaint without any specific allegation levelled against them the Supreme Court has said.
New amendments to the Dowry Prohibition Act suggested by the Ministry of Women and Child Development include maintaining a notorised list of wedding gifts reduced penalties for dowrygivers and linking the Dowry Act to the Domestic Violence Act
The Ministry of Women and Child Development has moved a Cabinet note seeking amendments in the existing provisions of the Dowry Protection Act .
Under the Dowry Prohibition Act genuine presents offered to the bride or to the bridegroom at the time of marriage are not prohibited provided the value of the gifts is not excessive compared to the financial status of the parties giving the presents. The Dowry Prohibition Maintenance of List of Presents to the Bride and Bridegroom Rules already requires a list to be maintained the current amendment makes it more legal by requiring a sworn affidavit thats duly notarised.
Senior Supreme Court advocate K T S Tulsi called the amendments a positive step. Mandatory registration of lists would not only facilitate having proof but also eliminate the possibility of abuse of law by making false allegations he said.
The amendments are expected to be placed before Cabinet for its approval this month and are likely to be tabled in Parliament in the coming budget session.
According to the National Crime Records Bureau NCRB in around cases were registered under the Dowry Prohibition Act compared to cases in . Dowry disputes continue to be the cause of death of many women. NCRB data shows female suicides due to dowry disputes reported in that is six a day on average the figure was in . In at least such cases were registered across the country.
Between and complaints of dowry harassment constituted the bulk of complaints received by the National Commission for Women NCW. A substantial increase in dowry harassment cases has been observed with each passing year a fairly large number of cases report police apathy.
The Dowry Prohibition Act was amended after a long and protracted struggle by womens organisations. New sections on cruelty and dowryrelated murder were inserted into the Indian Penal Code IPC in with the definition of cruelty widened to include not only harassment relating to dowry but other kinds of domestic violence as well. With the passage of the Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act womens organisations have seen more and more women come forward to register complaints of violence and abuse.
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Indias Supreme Court has said that women are increasingly misusing the tough antidowry law to harass their husbands and inlaws.
The judges said the law was enacted to help women but it was being used as a weapon by disgruntled wives.
The court has now ordered the police to follow a ninepoint checklist before arresting anyone on a dowry complaint.
Correspondents say dowry offences are a serious issue in India where more than women are killed every year.
Paying and accepting dowry is a centuriesold South Asian tradition where the brides parents gift cash clothes and jewellery to the grooms family.
The practice has been illegal in India since but it continues to thrive and campaigners say it leaves women vulnerable to domestic violence and even death.
To prevent dowry deaths and harassment of brides in their matrimonial homes India introduced a tough antidowry law Section A of the Indian Penal Code in .
A complaint under the law allows for immediate arrest and jailing of the accused often the husband and his family members but campaigners say the provision is frequently misused with many women filing false cases.
The fact that Section A is a cognisable and nonbailable offence has lent it a dubious place of pride amongst the provisions that are used as weapons rather than shield by disgruntled wives the twojudge bench of Justices CK Prasad and PC Ghose said in its order on Wednesday.
The simplest way to harass is to get the husband and his relatives arrested under this provision. In a quite number of cases bedridden grandfathers and grandmothers of the husbands their sisters living abroad for decades are arrested it added.
According to the National Crime Records Bureau statistics nearly people including women were arrested over dowry offences in but only of the accused were convicted the court said.
Expressing concern over the misuse of the law the judges ordered the police not to automatically arrest an accused but to go through a ninepoint checklist to satisfy themselves about the necessity for arrest.
And if the police make an arrest a magistrate must approve further detention of the accused the court ruled.
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In India it has its roots in medieval times when a gift in cash or kind was given to a bride by her family to maintain her independence after marriage. During the colonial period it became the only legal way to get married with the British making the practice of dowry mandatory. The trend in present India with its booming economy is now encouraging everhigher bride prices among all socioeconomic strata. But the rising bride price has brought with it an increase in violence against women.
Dowry violence is usually perpetrated by the husband or the inlaws in a bid to extract a higher dowry from the brides family. The dowry price paid at the time of marriage may be significant but the greed of husbands and inlaws can grow after marriage. This frequently translates into physical mental or sexual violence against the bride. The violence ranges from slashing genitalia or breasts with razors to burning her alive by pouring kerosene on her. In some cases women are driven to suicide.
Although seeking a dowry has been outlawed in India since the ban has been a challenge to enforce. An amendment to the law in mandated that any death or violence within the first seven years of marriage would be tried as related to dowry. The reality is that most cases of dowry violence go unreported.
We will illuminate dark places and with a deep sense of responsibility interpret these troubled times.
The story of a young girl on the threshold of marriage who informs the police about her bridegrooms illegal demands on her family and gets him arrested
In a country where most young girls succumb silently to their fate seldom taking their own decisions yearold Nisha did the unthinkable. Just as she was about to be married Nisha filed a police complaint against her groom for demanding excessive dowry thereby landing him in jail. Nishas gutsy actions have turned her into a national heroine overnight.
The practice of asking for dowry from a brides parents was officially outlawed by the Indian government in but is still widely followed. According to police officers only of women dare to report dowry harassment to the police. Most of those who do belong to urban upper class families.
Nisha a postgraduate registered a case with the police in Noida a satellite township of the capital Delhi after her husbandtobe Munish Dalal roughed up her father at the wedding while demanding an additional Rs . million in dowry.
Nishas father had already given the groom Rs worth of goods and a luxury car worth roughly the same amount.
With the wedding on in full swing and the guests already assembled Nishas father Devi Dutt Sharma pleaded with the Dalals. I was about to leave for the mandap when my brother Gyaneshwar called to say that our father had been beaten up. Munish was demanding dowry. I took out my cellphone and dialled recalls Nisha. She calmly told the police that a fight had broken out at the wedding venue over dowry.
Nishas bold decision undoubtedly followed her father D D Sharmas firm stand. Sharma who owns six factories told the Dalals that he wouldnt give them any more dowry and that the bridegrooms wedding party would have to return without the bride.
When there are more than guests at your daughters wedding its a difficult decision to take. But I realised that if Nisha married Munish their blackmailing and demands wouldnt end says Sharma.
The day before Sharma and his four brothers discussed the marriage late into the night. We felt that there was something wrong. We decided that if they asked for more money we would refuse says Nishas father.
Sharma says Munish also lied to them. He claimed to be a computer engineer but they found out he taught computers at a school.
The Sharmas had already spent Rs . million on the marriage. Munish specifically asked for a black Maruti Esteem. They also asked for electronic goods of specific brands says Sharma.
While Munish is cooling his heels in jail Nisha has become something of an overnight sensation politicians are asking her to fight elections Supreme Court lawyers are promising to fight her cases free of charge.
Many of those calling her are proposing marriage. Apparently there are countless young men who would be proud to marry a feisty young girl like her.
Having become an icon for Indian girls Nisha has one piece of advice for them. Never yield to dowry demands and do not be afraid to stand up for your rights. People who harass for dowry should be taught a lesson.
Would she marry Munish if he straightened up No. He has been making overtures but I dont want to have to do anything with that family.
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Plans are afoot to amend a criminal law that will allow compromise and settlement between husband and wife at the onset of trial in dowry harassment cases a move that comes after frequent misuse of the provision to trouble men and their near relatives.
Under the proposal Section A of the Indian Penal Code will be made a compoundable offence with the permission of the courts as suggested by the Law Commission and Justice Malimath Committee.
A draft note for the Union Cabinet seeking to amend Section A of the IPC making it compoundable has been sent to the Law Ministry for drawing up the draft bill a Home Ministry official said.
Now the offence is noncompoundable and nonbailable which provides for immediate arrest of the accused. Conciliatory effort by the warring sides is virtually impossible.
A husband or his family members are presumed to be guilty till they prove their innocence in the court. The guilty is punishable with a jail term of up to three years.
There have been allegations that in many cases husbands and their relatives are often charged with false dowry harassment cases by their wives or her family members when some marital problems arise.
If the offence is made compoundable misuse of the law may come down hugely as there would be scope for initiating conciliation proceedings and outofcourt settlement.
Permission from a court will be a guarantee against attempts where a wife may be compelled into a compromise by her husband or inlaws the Home Ministry official said.
Now if a dowry harassment case is proved wrong or proved that the law is misused only Rs penalty is slapped. But the amendment provides for a Rs fine.
Another new section is expected to be inserted to allow an accused to escape jail by paying a penalty.
Opposing the move to dilute the antidowry provision of the law senior Supreme Court lawyer Indira Jaising said it is a law which gives relief and protection to harassed woman and it should be continued.
Violence against women is a violation of human rights. There is no compromise of that. I would disagree with the government move Jaising said.
The Supreme Court had in a judgement in said as it stood now the law had become a weapon in the hands of disgruntled women. It had also observed that serious relook of the entire provision is warranted by the Legislature.
It is a matter of common knowledge that exaggerated versions of the incident are reflected in a large number of complaints. The tendency of overimplication is also reflected in a very large number of cases the apex court had said.
Section A was introduced in early eighties to protect married women from being subjected to cruelty by the husband or his relatives involving newlymarried brides.
A spate of dowry deaths in Delhi and elsewhere led to a campaign by some leading women members of Parliament pushing the government to bring the amendment.
A punishment involving imprisonment of up to three years is provided in the present law. The expression cruelty has been defined in wide terms so as to include inflicting physical or mental harm to the body or health of the woman and indulging in acts of harassment with a view to coerce her or her relations to meet any unlawful demand for any property or valuable security.
The Law Commission recommended that the offence under Section A should be made a compoundable offence with the permission of Court.
Justice Malimath Committee on Criminal Justice Reform also recommended that it should be made compoundable as well as bailable.
Last year the Home Ministry had asked all state governments to be judicious in slapping Section A of IPC in matrimonial disputes as the provision may be used as weapons rather than shields by disgruntled wives.
In an advisory to the states and union territories the Ministry had asked them to instruct their police officers not to automatically arrest a person when a case under Section A of the IPC is registered but to satisfy themselves about the necessity for arrest under the parameters laid down flowing from Section CrPC When police may arrest without warrant.
In an unusual decision in a dowry case of over nine years ago Judicial Magistrate Ist Class Taranjit Kaur has held complainant and her parents guilty of misusing Section A of the Dowry Act against the accused and his three sisters who were absolved of the charges of harassment and torture for dowry and were aquitted of the charges framed against them. The court observed the prosecution has failed to prove its case beyond reasonable doubt and the accused are entitled to benefit of doubt.
The court remarked that ultimate objective of every legal system is to arrive at truth punish the guilty and protect the innocent. The investigating agencies and the courts start with the presumption that the accused persons are guilty and that the complainant is speaking the truth. This is too widely available and generalised a statement. The role of investigating agencies and the courts is that of watchdog and not of bloodhound. She further observed There has been a tendency nowadays to rope in all the relatives of the husband in dowry cases and women are abusing the beneficial provisions of Section A by implicating all the family members of the husband.
The court had found only general as well as vague allegations regarding cruelty maltreatment and demand of dowry against the accused persons Harish Kumar husband of the complainant Sumit Rani and his family members. The court observed no dowry demand was made by the accused and even reconciliation efforts were failed when the matter was referred to Lok Adalat where the accused had asked the complainant to go to her inlaws house but she refused.
Sumit Rani had alleged that she was being taunted for not bringing sufficient dowry and her husband harassed and mistreated her. She left her husband and four children and started living with her father.
New amendments to the Dowry Prohibition Act suggested by the Ministry of Women and Child Development include maintaining a notorised list of wedding gifts reduced penalties for dowrygivers and linking the Dowry Act to the Domestic Violence Act
The Ministry of Women and Child Development has moved a Cabinet note seeking amendments in the existing provisions of the Dowry Protection Act .
Under the Dowry Prohibition Act genuine presents offered to the bride or to the bridegroom at the time of marriage are not prohibited provided the value of the gifts is not excessive compared to the financial status of the parties giving the presents. The Dowry Prohibition Maintenance of List of Presents to the Bride and Bridegroom Rules already requires a list to be maintained the current amendment makes it more legal by requiring a sworn affidavit thats duly notarised.
Senior Supreme Court advocate K T S Tulsi called the amendments a positive step. Mandatory registration of lists would not only facilitate having proof but also eliminate the possibility of abuse of law by making false allegations he said.
The amendments are expected to be placed before Cabinet for its approval this month and are likely to be tabled in Parliament in the coming budget session.
According to the National Crime Records Bureau NCRB in around cases were registered under the Dowry Prohibition Act compared to cases in . Dowry disputes continue to be the cause of death of many women. NCRB data shows female suicides due to dowry disputes reported in that is six a day on average the figure was in . In at least such cases were registered across the country.
Between and complaints of dowry harassment constituted the bulk of complaints received by the National Commission for Women NCW. A substantial increase in dowry harassment cases has been observed with each passing year a fairly large number of cases report police apathy.
The Dowry Prohibition Act was amended after a long and protracted struggle by womens organisations. New sections on cruelty and dowryrelated murder were inserted into the Indian Penal Code IPC in with the definition of cruelty widened to include not only harassment relating to dowry but other kinds of domestic violence as well. With the passage of the Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act womens organisations have seen more and more women come forward to register complaints of violence and abuse.
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Behind the entire media cacophony over Pooja Chauhan is a real story and a real person. The story is a familiar one. Of women thousands of them who are harassed over dowry or over the gender of the child they birth particularly if she turns out to be a girl writes
Given the lack of any news about dowry deaths dowry violence or dowry demands one would have thought that the problem had disappeared. Far from it. In fact it has become far more entrenched and taken new forms. Dowry is a symptom of a
The present day dowry system symbolizes the disinheritance of women and the resulting desperation of parents to push points to inherent flaws in the antidowry legislation and argues that equal inheritance is the way forward.
that has already begun. Others have done it more quietly perhaps. But the dramatic nature of Nishas refusal to give in will give others who are thinking of this some courage.
Alliances may be primed in heaven or in the matrimonial columns but the great Indian dowry custom continues to rule society regardless of reforms and regulations. A strong awareness that marriage is not a retail system will be a step in the right direction says Indra Chopra.
Even if the media does not write about dowry deaths anymore as it did in the latter part of the
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Less than a monthandahalf after her wedding a village woman from Bihar escaped from her inlaws place in Haryana after coming to know that she had been sold off by them to porn filmmakers.
Rita Devi named changed landed up at her parents house under Taraiya police station in Saran district in a distraught condition much to the shock of her father who had got her married to a man from Haryana and sent her off to her inlaws place only last month.
Hoping that Rita would be happy after her marriage in a distant place he had arranged her wedding to a youngster named Tiku Patikar with the help of one of his acquaintances from Haryana.
According to a complaint filed by her family with Taraiya police station on Monday Ritas marriage was solemnised at a temple with Tiku Patikar from Patikara village in Haryana on January this year.
Things however started turning worse only a few days after her wedding. Rita alleged that her husband and other members of her inlaws family started torturing her for her fathers inability to give them dowry.
According to her her inlaws wanted her father to give away Rs lakh in cash along with a Royal Enfield motorcycle for the marriage but he was unable to meet their demands because of his financial condition. This soured the relations between the two families.
She said that her inlaws not only taunted her for his fathers inability to give dowry but also started treating her roughly. They even made me work as a labourer in the fields she said in her complaint.
Rita alleged that she recently came to know that her husband with some help from his sisterinlaw had sold her off to porn filmmakers for Rs lakh. One night she also came to know that she would be handed over to them the next morning. This made her panicky but she somehow managed to escape from the house.
After having left her house she subsequently travelled all the way to her village in distant Bihar to inform her parents about her ordeal.
A large number of girls from poor families in Bihar are married to youths from Haryana and other places.
The police suspect that many of them fall prey to the racket involved in human trafficking across the country.
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Indias Supreme Court has said that women are increasingly misusing the tough antidowry law to harass their husbands and inlaws.
The judges said the law was enacted to help women but it was being used as a weapon by disgruntled wives.
The court has now ordered the police to follow a ninepoint checklist before arresting anyone on a dowry complaint.
Correspondents say dowry offences are a serious issue in India where more than women are killed every year.
Paying and accepting dowry is a centuriesold South Asian tradition where the brides parents gift cash clothes and jewellery to the grooms family.
The practice has been illegal in India since but it continues to thrive and campaigners say it leaves women vulnerable to domestic violence and even death.
To prevent dowry deaths and harassment of brides in their matrimonial homes India introduced a tough antidowry law Section A of the Indian Penal Code in .
A complaint under the law allows for immediate arrest and jailing of the accused often the husband and his family members but campaigners say the provision is frequently misused with many women filing false cases.
The fact that Section A is a cognisable and nonbailable offence has lent it a dubious place of pride amongst the provisions that are used as weapons rather than shield by disgruntled wives the twojudge bench of Justices CK Prasad and PC Ghose said in its order on Wednesday.
The simplest way to harass is to get the husband and his relatives arrested under this provision. In a quite number of cases bedridden grandfathers and grandmothers of the husbands their sisters living abroad for decades are arrested it added.
According to the National Crime Records Bureau statistics nearly people including women were arrested over dowry offences in but only of the accused were convicted the court said.
Expressing concern over the misuse of the law the judges ordered the police not to automatically arrest an accused but to go through a ninepoint checklist to satisfy themselves about the necessity for arrest.
And if the police make an arrest a magistrate must approve further detention of the accused the court ruled.
The invasion of Iraq in was not a last resort and there was no imminent threat from Saddam Hussein a longawaited report finds as relatives of service personnel killed say never again must so many mistakes be allowed to sacrifice British lives.
In a major step to end rampant misuse of the antidowry harassment law the Narendra Modi government on Wednesday said it is planning to make the offence compoundable which will permit compromise and settlement between both the parties at the trial court stage itself.
This will be done by amending a specific provision in Section A of the Indian Penal Code IPC.
At present as the offence is noncompoundable men and their relatives framed in large number of cases by their wives or her family members simply for extracting money face harassment at the trial court. They have to move the high court concerned to get their cases compounded.
In Delhi the misuse is less as the police are cautious after my ruling that there cannot be any arrest without the permission of the DCP and I limited the powers of the Crime against Women CAW cells who were lodging many cases themselves. They used to illegally summon and order arrest. I ended the tyranny by ruling that CAW cells have no power to take coercive action. The proceedings of these cells are not judicial or quasijudicial nor can they issue summons to appear before it. That power remains with the judiciary. In other northern states the less said the better about the police conduct said Dhingra.
The plan to make the offence compoundable was announced by Minister of State for Home Affairs H.P. Chaudhary in the Rajya Sabha.
A draft note for the Cabinet which inter alia seeks to amend section A of the IPC making it compoundable has been sent to the legislative department ministry of law and justice for drawing up the draft Bill he said. The move comes a year after the Supreme Court said the law had become a weapon in the hands of disgruntled women.
Expressing concern over the misuse of the law the apex court had directed the state governments to instruct police not to automatically arrest when a case under Section A of the IPC dowry harassment is registered but to satisfy themselves about the necessity for arrest under the parameters laid down flowing from Section of the Criminal Procedure Code.
It is a provision under which a husband his parents and relatives can be booked for subjecting a woman to cruelty to meet their unlawful demands dowry. Generally the husband his parents and relatives are immediately arrested without sufficient investigation and put behind bars on nonbailable terms. Even if the complaint is false the accused is presumed to be guilty until he or she proves innocence in the court. The maximum punishment if proved guilty is imprisonment for three years.
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They have been arrested for harassing Himanshi for dowry. She was found dead at her Ghaziabad residence on Wednesday.
The court observed that the suicide note of the woman did not allege any cruelty or dowry demand by her inlaws.
A yearold woman was allegedly beaten to death by her husband and inlaws after she failed to fulfil their dowry demands police said on Wednesday.
The woman committed suicide early hours on Thursday in her house in Jyoti Park with her husband.
A yearold woman died under mysterious circumstances but her bother alleged that she was killed by her inlaws over dowry in Lakshapur village in Bhadohi police said on Friday.
A woman was beaten to death allegedly by her husband and brotherinlaw after she failed to fulfill their dowry demand of Rs lakh.
In a shocking incident a man allegedly pushed his wife and son into a village well in Bihars Jamui district on Tuesday over dowry leading to their deaths police sources said.
Police sources say that the couple had secretly married in court and the mans family was demanding dowry.
According to Shilpas parents she was depressed due to dowry harassment by her inlaws said police.
Three women were found dead in separate cases of suspected dowry harassment in the national capital.
Three women were found dead in separate cases of suspected dowry harassment. In a th incident a woman suffered pc burn injuries.
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Also cases of dowry were registered during the same period of time she said in a written reply on implementation of Dowry Prohibition Act.
As per National Crime Records Bureau data a total number of and cases were registered of dowry deaths in the country during and respectively the Women and Child Development Minister said.
Similarly and cases were registered under Dowry Prohibition Act in the country during and respectively she said. The Minister said all states except Arunachal Pradesh Sikkim Mizoram and Nagaland where the dowry system is not prevalent have appointed Dowry Prohibition Officers.
The government regularly conducts awareness programmes and public campaigns on various laws related to women including Dowry Prohibition Act through workshops fairs cultural programmes seminars training programmes she said. Advertisements are also regularly brought out in print and electronic media to spread awareness on women rights and laws the Minister said.
In a major step to end rampant misuse of the antidowry harassment law the Narendra Modi government on Wednesday said it is planning to make the offence compoundable which will permit compromise and settlement between both the parties at the trial court stage itself.
This will be done by amending a specific provision in Section A of the Indian Penal Code IPC.
At present as the offence is noncompoundable men and their relatives framed in large number of cases by their wives or her family members simply for extracting money face harassment at the trial court. They have to move the high court concerned to get their cases compounded.
In Delhi the misuse is less as the police are cautious after my ruling that there cannot be any arrest without the permission of the DCP and I limited the powers of the Crime against Women CAW cells who were lodging many cases themselves. They used to illegally summon and order arrest. I ended the tyranny by ruling that CAW cells have no power to take coercive action. The proceedings of these cells are not judicial or quasijudicial nor can they issue summons to appear before it. That power remains with the judiciary. In other northern states the less said the better about the police conduct said Dhingra.
The plan to make the offence compoundable was announced by Minister of State for Home Affairs H.P. Chaudhary in the Rajya Sabha.
A draft note for the Cabinet which inter alia seeks to amend section A of the IPC making it compoundable has been sent to the legislative department ministry of law and justice for drawing up the draft Bill he said. The move comes a year after the Supreme Court said the law had become a weapon in the hands of disgruntled women.
Expressing concern over the misuse of the law the apex court had directed the state governments to instruct police not to automatically arrest when a case under Section A of the IPC dowry harassment is registered but to satisfy themselves about the necessity for arrest under the parameters laid down flowing from Section of the Criminal Procedure Code.
It is a provision under which a husband his parents and relatives can be booked for subjecting a woman to cruelty to meet their unlawful demands dowry. Generally the husband his parents and relatives are immediately arrested without sufficient investigation and put behind bars on nonbailable terms. Even if the complaint is false the accused is presumed to be guilty until he or she proves innocence in the court. The maximum punishment if proved guilty is imprisonment for three years.
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When Shehnaz Bano married Naved in she never suspected her life as a married woman would soon spiral into a circle of violence.
Naveds parents were always opposed to his relationship with Shehnaz as they deemed the initial dowry offered by her family as unsatisfactory. To appease the inlaws Shehnazs parents gave a significant dowry during the wedding and even afterwards giving in to the pressure of the inlaws.
She was required to dust and sweep the house wash clothes and cook food for the family. She was given very little food and had no money for personal needs. Her inlaws and her husband Naved treated her like a slave. She started falling ill frequently due to the stress and the workload but since she had no money she was forced to ask her parents or her brother to take her to the hospital. Moreover every time she went to the hospital her inlaws would lock the house thus denying her entrance. She would knock for hours and eventually the neighbours and often the police would intervene and only then would the inlaws allow her back in.
Despite the mistreatment she had to endure lack of financial independence and the stigma associated with divorce in many parts of India forced her to stay with her husband.
Dowryrelated violence is widespread in India. In alone the National Crime Records Bureau reported dowry harassment deaths. Unofficial figures show that these numbers are at least three times as high. The Criminal Law Act made cruelty to the wife by the husband or his relatives an offense but it focused on punishing the perpetrator while failing to recognize and fulfil womens needs for immediate and emergency relief.
This changed with the passage of the Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act PWDVA in following a decade of sustained advocacy and activism by the womens movement in India. Drafted by the Lawyers Collective Womens Rights Initiative through a consultative process and with support from the UN Trust Fund to End Violence against Women the law built on the real experiences of women. By centering on the need to protect women and to enable them to negotiate a life free of violence the law broke the myth that for victims justice is limited to tougher penalties.
The PWDVA marks a radical change bringing violence within the private sphere to the forefront and recognizing domestic violence as a violation of the human rights of women says Indira Jaising Executive Director of Lawyers Collective Womens Rights Initiative. The passing of the domestic violence law has reinforced the norm that violence against women is unacceptable and more importantly this norm has been backed by State sanctions.
For Shehnaz the law became the channel to escape violence. When one day her sisterinlaw attacked her with a knife and she was then left with no financial or other support from her husband she decided to file a case. The Lawyers Collective which introduced Shehnaz to the law accompanied her as she succeeded in securing financial support under the PWDVA Actrebuilding her life independent of her husband and inlaws.
Many are the lessons I have drawn she says. I have learnt to not have any fear and to go out and stand on my own feet to be brave.
I encourage women to speak out and seek support from organizations such as Lawyers Collective to attend survivor meetings and to build up their confidence and regain their pride.
Meanwhile work continues for Lawyers Collective. With a new grant from the UN Trust Fund the organization has been monitoring the implementation of the Law through its annual reports Staying Alive. A national picture of the effectiveness of the Law the reports carry the voices and the stories of thousands of survivors like Shehnaz.
In January the th Staying Alive report will be launched at a national conference that will be attended by Indias Minister for Women Child Development. In December a documentary highlighting the monitoring work of the Lawyers collective was released.
Bangladesh is a development country. In this country there are many kinds of unpleasant customs. Dowry is the most common unpleasant custom of those. It creates many problems. It is against the success of our country. Through this custom the bride has to give a large amount of money furniture ornaments and many things to the bridegroom. It is a very terrible situation for the society. Women their family suffer a lot for this dowry system. I think poverty illiteracy narrow mentality negative attitude to the women dependence on husband and living on their income social corruption etc are the main cause of dowry. Some time bridegroom wants money to do business or want to make his life settle with that money. In the village if brides are not beautiful to look at or if they get late married then they are to give a lot of money as dowry to the bridegroom. It is a much unexpected situation for the brides family members. They are to collect a huge amount of money for their daughters or sisters marriage. Sometime they are to take loan sell their lands furniture ornaments and even their own house to collect the money. They are to lose many things and face many problems for this dowry system. We saw that women are tortured when they can not give any money to their husband. Some time we hear and see in the newspaper that some women are killed some are hung and some are burnt by their husband inlaws family members and others. For this dowry system divorce doing suicide mental and physical tortures number of broken family are increasing day by day. It is also affecting on the new generation. They can not give attention in their education can not contribute in any development activities. It hampers their mental development. This custom is very disgraceful for our country. So we should try hard to remove this system from our country. There are some laws to remove it. But we can not apply them properly. We have to try to use these laws properly. There should be more steps on womens right in our Law system. We should change our outlook mentality by our Law rules. Narrow mentality of the greedy people should be changed and a hard punishment should be given to them. But good thing is that at present our Government is aware about it. Therefore this system is changing. In the past it was so high in our country. Now we have a law that who will give dowry and take dowry all will be known as a criminal. So if we stop giving dowry then I think that this system will be end soon.
that it is a device to control the unfettered power of the husband to divorce his wife. etc. There is a considerable debate what constitutes dowry in its various forms.M
. By this very verse. the poormen are taking this chance of exploiting the brides family to improve their fate from poverty and this is making marriage a commercial transaction. The word consideration is not used in the sense it is used in the Contract Act. Whereas dowry is a subsequent social development for the Muslim communities in Bangladesh with renewed effects after independence. It is paid to the wife only as an honour and respect and to show that he has a serious desire to marry her and is not simply entering into the marriage contract without any sense of responsibility and obligation or effort on his part. criminal law.
has become of much greater significance in the lives of the Bangladeshi people than dower. Under such pressure. welleducated families start saving up money for their daughters dowry as soon as she is born. is to be protected from violence and economic deprivation. remedies can only be achieved by changes of attitude in society.
Even modern. The time has come to assess whether women are actually able to use legal remedies available under these new statutes. Due to inability in respect of realisation of dower and social impact of dowry system. the government passed the Dowry Prohibition Act of . whose only form of education is tradition
When demands for killed. this can be attempted by legislation. so what can one expect from the uneducated masses. the Women and Children Repression Prevention Special Provision Act of exaggerated punishments in most cases up to death penalty for crime against women and children. By abolishing the dowry system and proper appreciation and observance of the custom of dower the Muslim women can be empowered in the society. the Muslim women still are being deprived from empowerment. and the stress they go through due to never ending demands from her inlaws. the bride is subject to torture. and often even parents dont want to have daughters is because of the
.at least not for another century. Dowry problems involve both aspects of the needs i.
The dowry system is so deeply rooted in Indian culture. but will need to be supported by education and legal awareness. which is not Islamic and specifically prohibited by state law. The real need of women in Bangladesh. that sometimes one feels that theres going to be no way out .and some enlightened males were demanding legislation to stamp out this social evil. The reason many
dowry are not met. More recently. Despite the enactment of stringent laws dowry related violence continues to increase.
An astounding number of parents still dont lay enough emphasis on educating their daughters. give as much as you receive. its something to brag about at kitty parties. so why push them so hard Poorer sections of society would rather send their daughters out to work and earn some money. One of the reasons
dowry. but dont feel pressured to give anything more than you receive to her inlaws. is that they often expect that their son will be earning and supporting the wife.your daughter is married into the wrong family. Those from regular middle and upper class backgrounds do send their daughters to school. do so. Encourage her to have a career of her own.Dowry is an evil. They believe their daughters will get married eventually. but our culture is such that we feel we must give something to the inlaws.
Similarly.so DONT. If their daughters do well. and the parents of the daughter flood her inlaws with gifts. at some level. If such giving is selfinflicted. you are contributing to this evil.
. In such cases. but dont emphasise career options. youve got a strong step in your favour.
Often the boys parents dont demand dowry. and it is only fair that she contribute somewhat towards the household by way of dowry. They view education as a rite of passage. and husbands will support them. Give a token present to your daughter. they know they will education very
Because of the family status and their ability to fork out a high get good matches for their daughter. If gifts are expected . If your daughter is educated and has as good a career as her husband to be. condone it and even contribute to it. to help them save up for her dowry.
education. evil system and all of us. If you want to give her something more. You dont need to if your daughter is happily married and has a supportive husband .
Come festivals like Diwali or Holi. youre making a mistake. dowry. When you go out of your way because you are the parents of the girl. and dont take their daughters seriously. parents of the boy ask for
Some of its basic functions are to protect the wife against ill treatment by her husband. So if they treat her badly. In Europe.
education. since a dowry can be a conditional gift. however. as she is not dependent on them. since the dowry makes it possible for the young man to establish a household. and other parts of the world. the dowry served to build the power and wealth of great families and played a role in the politics of grand alliance through marriage. to help the husband discharge the responsibilities of marriage.Instead of giving her dowry so everyone is nice to her at her new home.
Money. The giving of a dowry more or less disappeared in Europe in the th and th centuries. to provide the wife with support in case of her husbands death. South Asia. In some cases. delayed or insufficient dowry made some young wives the victims of murder by their husbands or inlaws. The dowry has a long history in Europe. and to compensate the grooms kin for their payment of bridewealth. Africa. in South Asia. goods. The practice grew. or estate that a woman brings to her husband in marriage. so they cant help but respect her. a practice known as bride burning or dowry death. she can walk out. give her a great career. and encouraging her to pursue a career dowry any parent can ever give their daughter. So they need her monthly contribution to the household expenses and dare not mess with her.
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The Bombay High Court on Thursday directed the State government to ensure that an additional post of dowry prohibition officer is set up in each district within three months. It also asked the State to establish an advisory board.
Hearing a petition filed by advocate Priscilla Samuel the HC observed that a large number of dowry cases have been registered across the State in recent years. It directed the government to appoint any experienced and capable officer from the Women and Child Development Cell as an independent dowry prohibition officer and added that the duties of these officers will be decided by the advisory board.
Advocate Samuels petition which was filed last year states that although the Dowry Prohibition Act was enacted in few steps had been taken by the government to curb the rising number of cases where women were physically and mentally tortured for dowry by their inlaws. The Tata Institute of Social Sciences had also intervened providing statistics of dowry harassment cases registered in the State. The PIL also raised the issue of ever increasing matrimonial websites and the illegalities associated with the same. It invited the HCs attention to the mushrooming illegal businesses of marriage brokers and Internetbased marriage service providers.
When Shehnaz Bano married Naved in she never suspected her life as a married woman would soon spiral into a circle of violence.
Naveds parents were always opposed to his relationship with Shehnaz as they deemed the initial dowry offered by her family as unsatisfactory. To appease the inlaws Shehnazs parents gave a significant dowry during the wedding and even afterwards giving in to the pressure of the inlaws.
She was required to dust and sweep the house wash clothes and cook food for the family. She was given very little food and had no money for personal needs. Her inlaws and her husband Naved treated her like a slave. She started falling ill frequently due to the stress and the workload but since she had no money she was forced to ask her parents or her brother to take her to the hospital. Moreover every time she went to the hospital her inlaws would lock the house thus denying her entrance. She would knock for hours and eventually the neighbours and often the police would intervene and only then would the inlaws allow her back in.
Despite the mistreatment she had to endure lack of financial independence and the stigma associated with divorce in many parts of India forced her to stay with her husband.
Dowryrelated violence is widespread in India. In alone the National Crime Records Bureau reported dowry harassment deaths. Unofficial figures show that these numbers are at least three times as high. The Criminal Law Act made cruelty to the wife by the husband or his relatives an offense but it focused on punishing the perpetrator while failing to recognize and fulfil womens needs for immediate and emergency relief.
This changed with the passage of the Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act PWDVA in following a decade of sustained advocacy and activism by the womens movement in India. Drafted by the Lawyers Collective Womens Rights Initiative through a consultative process and with support from the UN Trust Fund to End Violence against Women the law built on the real experiences of women. By centering on the need to protect women and to enable them to negotiate a life free of violence the law broke the myth that for victims justice is limited to tougher penalties.
The PWDVA marks a radical change bringing violence within the private sphere to the forefront and recognizing domestic violence as a violation of the human rights of women says Indira Jaising Executive Director of Lawyers Collective Womens Rights Initiative. The passing of the domestic violence law has reinforced the norm that violence against women is unacceptable and more importantly this norm has been backed by State sanctions.
For Shehnaz the law became the channel to escape violence. When one day her sisterinlaw attacked her with a knife and she was then left with no financial or other support from her husband she decided to file a case. The Lawyers Collective which introduced Shehnaz to the law accompanied her as she succeeded in securing financial support under the PWDVA Actrebuilding her life independent of her husband and inlaws.
Many are the lessons I have drawn she says. I have learnt to not have any fear and to go out and stand on my own feet to be brave.
I encourage women to speak out and seek support from organizations such as Lawyers Collective to attend survivor meetings and to build up their confidence and regain their pride.
Meanwhile work continues for Lawyers Collective. With a new grant from the UN Trust Fund the organization has been monitoring the implementation of the Law through its annual reports Staying Alive. A national picture of the effectiveness of the Law the reports carry the voices and the stories of thousands of survivors like Shehnaz.
In January the th Staying Alive report will be launched at a national conference that will be attended by Indias Minister for Women Child Development. In December a documentary highlighting the monitoring work of the Lawyers collective was released.
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Behind the entire media cacophony over Pooja Chauhan is a real story and a real person. The story is a familiar one. Of women thousands of them who are harassed over dowry or over the gender of the child they birth particularly if she turns out to be a girl writes
Given the lack of any news about dowry deaths dowry violence or dowry demands one would have thought that the problem had disappeared. Far from it. In fact it has become far more entrenched and taken new forms. Dowry is a symptom of a
The present day dowry system symbolizes the disinheritance of women and the resulting desperation of parents to push points to inherent flaws in the antidowry legislation and argues that equal inheritance is the way forward.
that has already begun. Others have done it more quietly perhaps. But the dramatic nature of Nishas refusal to give in will give others who are thinking of this some courage.
Alliances may be primed in heaven or in the matrimonial columns but the great Indian dowry custom continues to rule society regardless of reforms and regulations. A strong awareness that marriage is not a retail system will be a step in the right direction says Indra Chopra.
Even if the media does not write about dowry deaths anymore as it did in the latter part of the
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A dowry is a type of payment or gift of property that accompanies a bride upon marriage. The custom has been most common in settled agricultural societies where it may form an important part of the financial arrangements for a marriage. The types of property included in a dowry vary tremendously depending on the economic circumstances of the families involved and the customary expectations of the society. A womans dowry might include personal possessions such as clothing and jewels money servants or land. Societies vary in regarding a dowry as the property of the bride her husband or her husbands family. Where the custom exists women frequently receive dowries in lieu of a right of inheritance from their fathers estates Goody and Tambiah .
The custom of giving dowries may perform several positive functions. First as with other common forms of marital exchange such as bridewealth also called brideprice a dowry affirms an alliance between two families united by marriage. Second a dowry may provide a bride with some protection against an abusive husband. Should she leave her husband a womans family may demand that all or part of her dowry be returned. Third a young couple may use the dowry to set up their own household. Finally a woman may need to rely upon her dowry for support should her husband die and she has no rights to inheritance. These are by no means universal functions. They are contingent on the ways that people conceive of the dowry and especially on whether the wife controls all or part of it.
Dowry often has a marked political dimension. In medieval Europe noble families down on their fortunes often sought to marry their sons to women from rich families whose dowries would thus enhance their own financial situations. By the same token a newly wealthy family could improve its social standing by using rich dowries to form marital alliances with those of a higher class. In northern India marrying daughters upwards using the enticement of dowries has long provided one of the chief means for families to raise their status by very small increments within the rigidly hierarchical caste system a process technically known as hypergamy. In general the custom of dowry imposes a financial burden upon families with daughters that can be especially heavy when the family has few or no sons who might themselves attract wives with dowries.
Dowry had disappeared from most of Europe by the beginning of the twentieth century but remains a common practice in south Asia. In India it has become a matter of some controversy and a subject for legal reform because of a large number of incidents in which women have been harassed and even murdered by their inlaws in attempts to extort richer dowries. Debate continues as to whether dowry deaths should be understood as a byproduct of the custom itself or as the result of modern conditions that have undermined the traditional connections between families brought together in marriage while inflating the cash value of dowries Menski .
dowry dour the property that a woman brings to her husband at the time of the marriage. The dowry apparently originated in the giving of a marriage gift by the family of the bridegroom to the bride and the bestowal of money upon the bride by her parents. It has been a wellestablished institution among the propertied classes of various lands and times e.g. in ancient Greece and Rome India medieval Europe and modern continental countries. Generally the husband has been compelled to return the dowry in case of divorce or the death of the wife when still childless. One purpose of the dowry was to provide support for the wife on the husbands death and thus it was related remotely to the rights of dower. In civillaw countries the dowry is an important form of property. In England and the United States except for Louisiana the dowry system is not recognized as law.
a portion given with a bride a gift of nature or fortune a lot a great dealSlang Dictionary .
The paint on the wall behind her is peeling. She sits in a blue plastic chair in the village womens cooperative. As she looks out the window the afternoon suns rays illuminate the left side of her body. The skin on her face and upper body is mottled paper thin and covered with hyperpigmented scar tissue.
Twenty years ago her husband told her she hadnt paid an adequate dowry threw a bucket of kerosene on her and set her on fire.
Her husband then took her to the hospital. He gave her a choicetell the truth and lose your children or lie so you can see them again. Meera lied.
Meera comes from a small village called Rajokri outside Delhi. It is a rural iron ore worker community of people. She is a statistic who has not been counteda sequestered victim of dowry violence or bride burning.
I witnessed the results of this violence firsthand seven years ago during my surgical rotation at a government hospital in Karnataka as a secondyear medical student. The female burns ward was always full. The smell was unmistakablea combination of betadine silver sulfadiazine and burnt flesh. While dressing wounds I heard stories of women immolated by their husbands or their inlaws because of an inadequate dowry or groom price.
The memory of that ward and the violence that these women suffered never left me. After earning my MPH last spring I returned to India to unearth the stories of dowry violence victims. I traveled to the cities of Delhi and Mumbai and spoke to survivors lawyers NGO workers doctors and patients to try to understand the problem and hopefully find seeds for its solution.
The practice of paying dowries in India is based on ancient tradition. It was originally a Hindu religious requirement in the Manusmriti a text dating to BC that delineated the way of life and laws for Hindus. Among the ancient Hindus presenting gifts to each other during a wedding was a required cultural practice. The daughters father was expected to expensively clothe and bejewel his daughter and a sons father was expected to give the brides family a cow and a bull.
Over time when a woman left for her husbands home she was given money jewelry and property referred to as streedhan to help ensure her financial independence after marriage. However the practice of dowry devolved from a means of financial emancipation for a bride to a modern system of transactions and groom prices says Anjali Dave an associate professor of Womens Studies at the Tata Institute of Social Sciences TISS in Mumbai. The woman has been disallowed control over the finances that she brought with her to the marriage Dave says. Marriage is like a livelihood for todays Indian woman.
During negotiations between the grooms and brides families the price is agreed upon verbally and never as a written contract. The practice of paying a dowry in India was outlawed in . Although the amount is paid to the grooms family at the time of marriage the demands often increase after the bride arrives at her husbands home. If the demands are not met the bride may suffer. The violence ranges from brutal beatings emotional torture withholding money throwing them out of the house keeping them away from their children keeping mistresses openly or in extreme cases burning the wife alive says Savra Subratikaan a helpline worker at a womens rights organization in New Delhi.
The National Crime Records Bureau of India reported dowry deaths in in other words one wife is killed every minutes. However since social and cultural taboos discourage women from reporting cases the cases represent only the tip of a predominantly submerged iceberg.
In New Delhi I met a woman named Pooja who wanted to tell me her story. We met on a Saturday in her office in a sleek multistoried glass building in the heart of New Delhis business district. Pooja sat in her office dressed in a buttondown professional shirt and tailored pants. After looking down at her hands for a few minutes she looked up and smiled. She was ready to tell her story.
In her parents arranged a match for her. She was to be married to one of her distant relatives whom her family had known for the last years. Her fianc was an educated city man with a good job in New Delhi. Pooja was had just completed her masters in business administration at the Indian Institute of Foreign Trade and was working at a prestigious health insurance firm. The wedding was typical of her familys Marwari traditionsloud large and expensive. The joy did not last.
You know girls in India have a dream boy in their head which never becomes a reality says Pooja.
It is common for a bride to move to her inlaws and husbands house after marriage as part of an extended family. Eight days after the wedding Pooja began to feel uneasy entering her new home. Her husband would shout at her for no reason her inlaws would leave her no dinner when she came home from work and eventually her inlaws stopped speaking to her. I never realized what the problem was. I dont like to cause problems she says.
The basis of her problem Pooja found out later was the inadequacy of the dowry that she had brought with her. She learned indirectly through her relatives that her motherinlaw had told them that she hadnt brought sufficient things from her family. She told herself that her husband would support her. But shortly into the marriage as he was driving her to work he threw her out of his car and told her to get her parents to buy her a new car. A person whom you have entrusted your entire life to doing this and abusing you in public makes you feel terrible she says.
Pooja realized that her inlaws had asked for her hand not because she was a suitable bride but because her salary and net worth were high. The entire intention was to extract my salary she says. The jewelry that she had brought with her at the time of marriage was locked away by her motherinlaw. She was made to give up her savings and to be a coborrower for her husbands student loan. In spite of all that she had paid she finally came home one day to find that she had been thrown out of the house. With nowhere else to go she turned to her parents.
Returning to your parents home after marriage is still a big stigma in India she says. But she didnt know what else to do. Fortunately her parents took her back. She had been aware that the dowry issue still existed for many brides in India but she didnt think she an educated city girl would fall victim to it.
When someone is parting with their daughter he is giving you the most precious possession of his life. Why should dowry come into the picture Pooja asks.
The going rate for a dowry in todays Indian marriage market varies according to ones socioeconomic position. Society decides and confirms the dowry rates says Pratibha Gajbhiye a program coordinator with TISS for the rural womens cells in police stations in Maharashtra state. The dowry amount in rural areas depends on the education level of the prospective groom. If the groom is a doctor or engineer the dowry could be lakhs about US to US she says. A yearold village woman in Rajokri proudly announced to me that she had given her daughter a motorcycle half a kilo of gold and a bed as a dowry.
Less wealthy grooms demand smaller dowries but still its a hardship for poor families. Another Rajokri resident told me that the cheapest motorcycle costs INR about USan astronomical price for the average family of five which daily earns about INR US..
So how do parents manage to raise the money People sell land and get bankrupt after marriage notes Dave the TISS professor. Dalit communities lower caste in India lease their sons into bonded labor to get money for their daughters wedding. In Vidarba Maharashtra where cotton farmers were committing mass suicide because of failing crops research found that their debt had accumulated because of the increased price of dowry.
The societal affliction of dowry colors the life of an Indian woman not only at the time of her marriage but throughout her life. A girl is seen as an encumbrance to the family. The birth of the girl child more often than not warrants judiciously saving for her future marriage. Parents take loans sell land and fall into deep debt in order to save for their daughters dowry. Many girls are killed at birth because of the dowrys financial burden.
And for those who survive poor nutrition abuse and illiteracy remain problems in rural areas especially.
Rashmi Misra the founder of a womans empowerment and educationcentered NGO in New Delhi explains how girls are denied food so that their brothers will have enough to eat. They are also discouraged from going to school because they are usually married off early. I remember speaking to two slum girls in Delhi and they said to me Were girls. We dont need to go to school. Only boys should go to school she recalls.
Prospects of emancipation that come from a young girls education are lost making her financially dependent on her future husband.
In talking with Pooja Meera and others I could not understand what would lead a husband or his family members to attempt to kill a bride by burning her.
Both play into the violence. The husband and inlaws after repeatedly abusing the wife ultimately try to kill her and burn her to death so that once she dies the man can marry again and receive a new adequate dowry Anjali told me. Since a huge social stigma is attached to divorce in India she explained some husbands would rather kill their wives than divorce them.
Dowry violence in India is not limited to the uneducated or the poor it infects all socioeconomic strata. Among the wealthy the market value of grooms is paid via cash commodities and property. The richest in Delhi pay for their daughters husband in the form of a Mercedes furnished apartments and hard cash explains Misra.
On July the Times of India reported that a former Miss World winner Yukta Mookhey accused her husband of dowry harassment saying she had only received lakhs US of the crore US that she took as dowry. She told the Times that she left him when he was threatening to take my child away from me was threatening my life.
Less than two weeks later another woman Gitanjali Garg was found dead in a park beaten with sticks and shot three times. She was the wife of an influential and wealthy chief judicial magistrate of Gurgaon a city kilometers south of Delhi. An attempt was made to cover up the case as a suicideleaving Gitanjalis family to ask why she would shoot herself three times if she wanted to commit suicide. The family has now booked a case of dowry violence against Ravneet Garg Gitanjalis husband and his parents.
Meera the victim from Rajokri had done everything she could. She and her family paid a dowry at the time of marriage. She sold her jewelry at her husbands request and even tried to raise more money for him.
When she returned from the hospital six months after her husband immolated her she found him living in their house with another woman. But she has nowhere else to go so she remains there. Her husband periodically throws her out of the house sometimes even in the middle of the night. Every day she lives in fear.
Still she is reluctant to tell the truth about what happened the night he set her on fire. What will my children think of their father and of me What will society say about me she says.
Like Meera many survivors attribute their burns to accidents or attempted suicide. Societal norms the sanctity of marriage and a lack of personal income prevent rural women from telling the truth.
Even when doctors find evidence to support an act of dowry violence many do not report it says Manoj Ahire a senior lecturer and senior surgical resident at the Lokmanya Tilak Municipal Hospital in Mumbai. In many cases doctors find that the pattern of burns does not match the womans claims but they are not expected to report this. In a court of law doctors are only asked to comment on whether the patient was fully conscious and able to make a statement to the police.
When it comes to reporting the crime women face great hurdles. Pooja says she was harassed by female police at the womens cell in New Delhi. They mocked her and told her to withdraw her case because that would be better for her reputation. When she finally filed her First Investigative Report FIR the police delayed taking the case to court.
Pooja told me that she would talk about this issue publicly but doesnt see the point. The law is not on her side and neither is society. I was tormented but my tormentors are allowed to walk away freely. How is this justice she asks.
The legal system in India technically has multiple provisions to deal with dowry giving and the violence associated with it. In the Dowry Prohibition Act made demanding or giving a dowry as a precondition for marriage unlawful. Sections a of the Indian Penal Code IPC decrees that any death of a woman within the first seven years of the marriage will be considered by default to be because of dowry harassment and Section b IPC deals with cruelty against the bride. Both laws were meant to serve as preventive measuresbut the chasm between legal policies and implementation remains large and difficult to cross.
The disconnect between the reality in India and the laws is evident in the construction of the seven year time frame for penalizing dowry crimes. Dave says How was the number seven years in section a arrived at Dowry violence continues throughout a womans married life in many cases.
This is true of Saraswati another resident of Rajokri village. Saraswati was married at the age of and endured physical and mental abuse because of dowry extortion for years. At the end of the years of marriage her husband walked out on her leaving her alone to fend for herself and their three children. How will I go to a lawyer she says I have to work seven days a week for my family to live hand to mouth and going to the courts requires me to take a whole day off from work.
The dowry tradition impacts a womans health through all her life stages. Before birth it comes in the form of sexselective abortions. During the first few years of her life it manifests itself in infanticide malnutrition illiteracy and abuse. As adolescents girls are often overworked and not given opportunities because they are considered a financial burden. Once married many women have to deal with the physical emotional or financial violence that can lead to mental health issues.
So entwined in modern culture so steeped in history the dowry tradition and its toofrequent violence seems almost ineradicable. At the root of dowry violence is the perception of a woman and her worth in India. The ideology of womens subservience permeates all social classes.
It will be impossible to stop dowry violence until there is a substantial shift in gender norms says Vijayendra Rao PhD a lead economist at the World Bank who has worked extensively on dowry violence and gender equity. Providing women with options outside of marriage he argues would form a strong foundation for increasing their social perception in India as one of value. Female education reducing gender discrimination in the workplace and providing child care could be a few steps to help this process along Rao says. The persuasion of community leaders that dowries are bad and unnecessary too will help. Legal and policy reforms are also necessary including the use of special teams in police departments that work to reduce dowry violence he says.
A combination of changing mindsets through persuasion changes in incentives via policy action and outside enforcement of laws is required to stop dowries and violence against women in India Rao says.
We will illuminate dark places and with a deep sense of responsibility interpret these troubled times.
occur This was the central point of concern of a sociological study by Nalini Singh based on a survey of the marriages of young women aged years in each of which the wife died an unnatural death reportedly due to harassment over dowry. She suggested that it is primarily the societal ones worth or significance. Since worth is distributed unequally amongst material additives that is dowry. The roots of this worth deficiency of husbands are made to feel an obligation to supply dowry goods and services
therefore she observes do not occur because there is a mismatch between gifts demanded by inlaws and presents received but because young married women customarily have no political significance in their new families. The continuous demand for dowry is but one of the ways in which the deficient in countless other ways too. Therefore she says the term dowrydeaths is a misnomer because dowry related harassment occurs as part of a larger if demands for dowry were to be satisfied fully young women would continue customsanctionedinferiority that robs them of their basic human rights.
According to Nalini Singh from the earliest days of a marriage the inlaws ruin the life of a bride on the assumption that the young woman has surrendered structure while her parents reassure her that selfeffacement is virtuous in woman. If there is much agreement on womens mute compliance with predetermined norms then why are our daughters dying in marriage As revealed by Singhs survey the truth is that young women do not reconcile themselves to the complete absence of political significance in their affinal family. Yet they simulate absolute obedience because that is what their fraudulent the brides parents owe them an unlimited amount of dowry or Compensation they the inlaws establish a conduit for this flow through the bride. two optionsone she succumbs and procures the demanded goods from her parents after initially deflecting some of the hard edge of the demand by tolerating physical brutality herself and two she does not comply is noteworthy she states that many women finally adopt the second alternative at great personal risk and high emotional cost and offer sustained resistance
family not so much because of the monetary deprivation but because of its real potential for destabilizing the power structure which sanctions exploitative behaviour within the family. The young womans subdued noncooperation with the demand for extortion of dowry from her parents might not be the solitary issue on which she resists blind authority but there might be some other issues which expose her as opinionated as for instance the desire to work or study despite family opposition. All such actions are is a political amputee by tradition resists prestigious traditions such as dowry she is a logical candidate for retaliation by the inlaws. Dowry death are a manifest example of this retaliation by the flagbearers of patriarchial authority. In some cases the retaliatory wrath of the inlaws expresses itself in murders of the young women by burning with kerosene most frequent in urban areas or drowning common in rural areas. Other
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The Coop is to pay the buyer of of its properties tens of millions of pounds to take them off its hands Sky News learns.
The Cooperative Group is offering a m cash dowry to bidders for scores of properties it acquired during its disastrous takeover of Somerfield nearly a decade ago.
Sky News has learnt that the Coop has pledged the sum to a trio of suitors for the real estate portfolio in exchange for a guarantee to keep scores of stores trading for at least three years.
The dowry underlines the determination of the UKs biggest mutual to offload approximately former Somerfield sites the majority of which traded under the nowdefunct brand.
More than of them now operate Cooperative Food while some of the others are leased to other retailers.
The sale process has attracted interest from bidders such as Greybull Capital which is also attempting to acquire assets from Tata Steel in the UK and which owns a stake in M Local a convenience food retailer.
The other remaining bidders for the Coop portfolio are Gordon Brothers and Hilco which specialise in acquiring struggling retail businesses.
Richard Pennycook the Coops chief executive launched the sale as part of a wider effort to repair its finances following a .bn loss in which was largely the result of a crisis at its banking arm.
It has since offloaded its agricultural business and its pharmacy operations for hundreds of millions of pounds as well as relinquishing a controlling stake in the Coop Bank to external investors.
The Coop paid nearly .bn to buy Somerfield in adding around shops to its estate.
The deal was a disaster however saddling the mutual with debt and leading to huge writedowns in the value of the Somerfield business amid intensifying competition in the food retailing industry.
Since the appointment of a new management team at both the Coop Group and its food business its performance has improved markedly.
During the first half of last year the food division recorded overall likeforlike sales growth of . with its convenience estate showing growth of more than .
Sources said the trading stores included in the portfolio being sold were expected to have made a combined profit of just over m for with the net cost of the remaining sites just over m.
An insider added that the dowry was necessary to make a transaction viable but said that even after the cost of that had been factored in the deal would be financially positive for the Coop.
The fastchanging economics of food retailing mean that all of the major players are being forced to reevaluate their business models a point reinforced by J Sainsburys offer for Argoss owner Home Retail Group.
Wm Morrison the UKs fourthbiggest grocer sold its chain of convenience stores last year for about m since when they reopened under the M Local brand.
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They have been arrested for harassing Himanshi for dowry. She was found dead at her Ghaziabad residence on Wednesday.
The court observed that the suicide note of the woman did not allege any cruelty or dowry demand by her inlaws.
A yearold woman was allegedly beaten to death by her husband and inlaws after she failed to fulfil their dowry demands police said on Wednesday.
The woman committed suicide early hours on Thursday in her house in Jyoti Park with her husband.
A yearold woman died under mysterious circumstances but her bother alleged that she was killed by her inlaws over dowry in Lakshapur village in Bhadohi police said on Friday.
A woman was beaten to death allegedly by her husband and brotherinlaw after she failed to fulfill their dowry demand of Rs lakh.
In a shocking incident a man allegedly pushed his wife and son into a village well in Bihars Jamui district on Tuesday over dowry leading to their deaths police sources said.
Police sources say that the couple had secretly married in court and the mans family was demanding dowry.
According to Shilpas parents she was depressed due to dowry harassment by her inlaws said police.
Three women were found dead in separate cases of suspected dowry harassment in the national capital.
Three women were found dead in separate cases of suspected dowry harassment. In a th incident a woman suffered pc burn injuries.
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The Coop is to pay the buyer of of its properties tens of millions of pounds to take them off its hands Sky News learns.
The Cooperative Group is offering a m cash dowry to bidders for scores of properties it acquired during its disastrous takeover of Somerfield nearly a decade ago.
Sky News has learnt that the Coop has pledged the sum to a trio of suitors for the real estate portfolio in exchange for a guarantee to keep scores of stores trading for at least three years.
The dowry underlines the determination of the UKs biggest mutual to offload approximately former Somerfield sites the majority of which traded under the nowdefunct brand.
More than of them now operate Cooperative Food while some of the others are leased to other retailers.
The sale process has attracted interest from bidders such as Greybull Capital which is also attempting to acquire assets from Tata Steel in the UK and which owns a stake in M Local a convenience food retailer.
The other remaining bidders for the Coop portfolio are Gordon Brothers and Hilco which specialise in acquiring struggling retail businesses.
Richard Pennycook the Coops chief executive launched the sale as part of a wider effort to repair its finances following a .bn loss in which was largely the result of a crisis at its banking arm.
It has since offloaded its agricultural business and its pharmacy operations for hundreds of millions of pounds as well as relinquishing a controlling stake in the Coop Bank to external investors.
The Coop paid nearly .bn to buy Somerfield in adding around shops to its estate.
The deal was a disaster however saddling the mutual with debt and leading to huge writedowns in the value of the Somerfield business amid intensifying competition in the food retailing industry.
Since the appointment of a new management team at both the Coop Group and its food business its performance has improved markedly.
During the first half of last year the food division recorded overall likeforlike sales growth of . with its convenience estate showing growth of more than .
Sources said the trading stores included in the portfolio being sold were expected to have made a combined profit of just over m for with the net cost of the remaining sites just over m.
An insider added that the dowry was necessary to make a transaction viable but said that even after the cost of that had been factored in the deal would be financially positive for the Coop.
The fastchanging economics of food retailing mean that all of the major players are being forced to reevaluate their business models a point reinforced by J Sainsburys offer for Argoss owner Home Retail Group.
Wm Morrison the UKs fourthbiggest grocer sold its chain of convenience stores last year for about m since when they reopened under the M Local brand.
Dowry related domestic abuse is still prevalent in India despite years of feminist campaigning.
Researchers at the University of Portsmouth have found dowry is still regularly practiced in parts of the country and dissatisfaction with the amount of dowry provided contributes to the domestic abuse suffered by newly married women as well as to gender inequalities on a wider scale.
The study also showed that motherinlaws were the main harassers and perpetrators of violence against young women nearly per cent of the time.
Dowry is the exchange of money andor goods from the brides family to the grooms at the point of marriage. Families give as much as possible which in some cases will involve selling land and homes or taking out loans.
The study carried out by researchers in the Universitys School of Languages and Area Studies is one of very few carried out on this topic since the last substantial study ten years ago. During this period the rise of westernisation and modernisation in India has led to increased employment and education opportunities for women.
Womens organisations in India have moved away from antidowry campaigning and focused more on increasing womens independence through better access to healthcare and advice education and employment and encouraging women to take on political roles.
However the study shows that these methods have been unsuccessful in reducing the practice of dowry and the domestic abuse women often suffer when the dowry amount is not satisfactory.
Our findings depressingly show that little has improved in the last decade and dowry remains a fundamental problem in womens lives said Dr Tamsin Bradley lead researcher.
The data shows that investing energy in securing better gender equality has not decreased rates of dowry and related abuse.
In India dowry is traditionally used as a way of displaying and increasing a familys status. As the daughter mirrors the status of her family it is also seen as a way to preserve the family honour. With the increase in wealth of those of a lower social status more families can now afford to give a dowry and families of a lower social status often use it to emulate the behaviour and status of the upper classes.
The study involved interviews with different age groups of both men and women. The older women said young brides not being properly prepared for marriage nor being able or willing to fit in with the behaviour of their new family were key factors contributing to domestic violence. Of the younger women who reported experience of abuse per cent said their motherinlaw was the perpetrator of the violence.
Our research highlights that many women once they reach the status of motherinlaw are so invested in the patriarchal system that they become the main harassers and perpetrators of violence against young women said Dr Bradley.
The study was conducted in Engandiyour village in Kerala south India and was split into two phases. The first phase involved structured interviews with women and eight men under the age of from various religions and social class groupings. The participants were asked questions about their experiences of married life and the part dowry played in this. The women were also asked whether they had experienced any form of violence physical or psychological.
During the second phase researchers conducted indepth interviews with three focus groups seven women aged a local prominent marriage broker and two members of a high profile womens organisation in Kerala. The three focus groups comprised a local womens selfhelp group whose members were aged a group of women aged and a group of three Hindu male community leaders. These interviews could be more personalised and allowed the researchers to be more flexible with their questioning.
Most of the younger women interviewed saw dowry as one of the main problems faced by women but also had no intention of stopping the practice. Those who had experienced mental or physical abuse linked to their dowry still intended to give a dowry when their daughter married as they feared negative repercussions if they didnt do this.
The study did find holes in the patriarchal system and ways of widening those holes. Although most of the men interviewed supported the practice of dowry and didnt see it as a problem their views differed on the role of the woman once she is married with some men supporting the idea of a married woman working and advancing her education. Some of the younger men seemed indifferent at the thought of dowry not being practised.
Dr Bradley believes this is a positive sign and suggests the way forward includes engaging more with men especially younger men whose views about dowry could be influenced for the better.
If young men have greater exposure to both the arguments against dowry and the evidence which highlights its negative impact their views may be transformed.
Other suggestions include strengthening the voice of those women who oppose the practice of dowry highlighting to whole communities the problems dowry can cause for women and monitoring the shift in attitudes towards dowry and marriage to see whether these actions are working.
Conversely in Thailand the dowry is given from the groom to the bride. It is often shown off at the wedding and now on Facebook etc.. I have sometimes heard complaints from wives comparing dowry sizes to others but have not myself heard of domestic abuse arising from it.
Indias top court has accused the countrys women of misusing a law created to protect them from harassment by their husbands and inlaws.
The antidowry law introduced in was originally designed to safeguard women from abuse and sometimes death in the hands of relatives but the Supreme Court on Tuesday ruled the act was now being used as weapons by disgruntled wives.
The simplest way to harass is to get the husband and his relatives arrested the twojudge bench of the Supreme Court headed by Justice Chandramauli Kumar Prasad in a page order said.
In some cases bedridden grandfathers and grandmothers of the husbands their sisters living abroad for decades are arrested the order noted.
According to the National Crime Records Bureau statistics nearly people including women were arrested in regard to dowry offences in but only of the accused were convicted.
The judges reminded authorities they must follow a socalled ninepoint checklist that has been part of the antidowry law before noting down a dowryrelated complaint.
In case the police make an arrest a magistrate must approve further detention of the accused the court ruled.
Paying and accepting gifts associated with a marriage otherwise known as a dowry is an ancient tradition among most Indian families where parents of the bride give cash clothes and jewelry to the family of the groom. As the demands grew over time women were subject to harassment beatings and were even burned to death for failing to bring adequate wealth into the husbands family.
The practice was outlawed in but this act of giving at weddings has remained a common practice in India.
Under laws introduced in a complaint allowed for immediate arrest of the accused often the husband and his family.
In spite of laws that are supposed to serve as a deterrent India continues to see a rise in the number of reported dowryrelated deaths. More than cases where women died from dowryrelated harassment were registered in India in up from the year before and just over in according to the latest figures from the National Crime Records Bureau.
Naina Kapur a New Delhibased lawyer who works on human rights said the court while trying to strike a balance in society has stereotyped women.
Ranjana Kumari of the Centre for Social Research said that If the law is being misused according to the Supreme Court then it is the law enforcement agencies that need to be blamed and not women in society.
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Dowry has become a crude institution resulting in female infanticide suicide brideburning and other indignities and cruelties. The rise in dowry crimes is a cause of concern. The law has proved insufficient for the eradication of dowry and related crimes. Nor have such crimes receded following social awakening by various groups and organisations.
According to police sources the dance masters daughterinlaw Jothi gave a complaint with the Thirumangalam police. And police have started enquiries.
Sivasankar had choreographed songs for several hundred films and even acted in many.
At least women were reportedly killed across India last year in dowryrelated deaths with many being burned alive.
One woman is killed every hour in India often burned to death due to family disputes over dowry payments for marriages a new report claims.
At least women died there last year because of arguments stemming from the brides family giving money to the groom or his family the National Crime Records Bureau has said.
If a payment is not deemed adequate enough victims are often doused with petrol and set alight.
The centuriesold custom of giving or receiving dowries is illegal in India but is still widely practised and dowry demands often continue for years after the wedding.
Loopholes in dowry prevention laws delays in prosecution and low conviction rates have led to a steady rise in dowryrelated crimes womens rights activists and police said.
Activist Ranjana Kumari said the dowry demands had intensified since Indias recent economic boom.
She blamed a growing culture of greed as India opens its economy to foreign goods that the younger generation cannot afford but badly want.
Suman Nalwa a senior New Delhi police officer dealing with crimes against women said dowry practices extended to all classes in society.
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Even suicide note of a man is not enough reason for law to move its rear is wellexemplified in the case below where a young man committed suicide to escape from wifes threat of false dowry case against him and his family. Will police wake up when men in their own family and relations commit suicide in similar situation Maybe they will but it will be too late anyway. When a man lets another man die by treating him as disposable asset he increases his own probability of being disposed off by society one day Its all about collective karmaContinue Reading
How do we know a false cooked dowry harassment story from a true one Well here is one for you. It would have been enough if the wife left things at all the stories about illtreatment mental cruelty blah blah but she could not stop at that could she So she added the story that husband tried to smother her with a pillow. And you are complaining only about pimples and dowry harassment to Deccan Herald Just admit that so far you are unsuccessful at extorting any money and going to newspaper is the final trump card you think youContinue Reading
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Widening social gaps disintegration of the joint family system consumerism globalisation and commercialisation of marriage are some of the reasons for the prevalence of dowry system in modern Kerala Anna Lindberg director of the Swedish South Asian Studies Network SASNET at Lund University has said.
Speaking on the topic Dowry System in Kerala Ms. Lindberg said that communities that did not traditionally practise bride price also practised dowry system today. The seminar was jointly organised by the Centre for Womens Study Womens Cell Sexual Harassment Prevention Cell and the Womens Forum of the University of Kerala.
Today dowry system is much disguised in Kerala and dowry is given as gift to the daughter. The practice is in fact is taken for granted today she said. Ms. Lindberg said that the practice of demanding extended dowry had also increased over the years.
She added that women themselves participated in keeping up the dowry system. Many women I interviewed who were also employed said that the husband needed to be compensated for maintaining the family she said.
Pointing out that the issue of dowry had many ramifications Ms. Lindberg said that the biggest tragedy related to dowry was violence against women.
Ms Lindberg who chronicled around marriages held between and and researched on the practice of dowry in erstwhile Travancore said that traditionally the dowry system was prevalent among the Namboodiri Brahmin and Syrian Christian communities in Kerala. The Nairs being a matrilineal caste did not have the dowry system until the s nor did lower castes and tribal communities she said. In fact the Pulayar caste association abhorred the practice of dowry a hundred years ago Ms. Lindberg said.
She said that the dowry system had a sudden spurt in the s and when money from the Gulf started coming into the State. The disintegration of joint families and emergence of nuclear families that vested the responsibility of maintaining families on individuals also strengthened the dowry system. While initially dowry was introduced to encourage young men to marry and to control the sexuality of men and women today it has become more of a prestige issue for families Ms Lindberg said.
She added that dowry was not a private issue in a democratic country like India but a social evil that needed to be addressed appropriately.
Earlier the seminar was inaugurated by Valsalakumari Land Revenue Commissioner.
Preeti Biyani committed suicide on April by hanging herself. Even though she left a suicide note saying that nobody was responsible her parents alleged that she committed suicide due to dowry harassment.
Ravikanth from Swati Mane an organisation dealing with Womens Empowerment and SV Sujata from Dhavala Mahila Vedika agree that women should directly protest about being harassed seek legal remedies call a helpline or receive counselling. They believe incidents of dowryrelated violence are on the rise especially if the girl is unemployed. The girls family can first try to negotiate with the boys family otherwise ask for help from relatives or complain to the police and get the boy and those involved in his family arrested says Sujata.
Hema Deshpande from Vanitha Sahay Vani reminds parents that they must always keep in touch with their daughters after marriage and advises them to pick up on indications of harassment and suicidal tendencies if any. The first step that families must take is negotiation. Problems of dowry are also caused by misunderstanding. So to prevent conflict families should sit together and talk about issues rather than quarrel she says.
Psychologist Ishita Datta explains the state of mind of a woman traumatised by dowry harassment. The main reason for dowry death is low selfesteem. The girl thinks she is worth only the amount she brings in. So when it is not high enough she develops a negative selfimage. She feels there is no point in living which is why extreme cases result in suicide. But in most cases brides remain unhappy and depressed.
Widening social gaps disintegration of the joint family system consumerism globalisation and commercialisation of marriage are some of the reasons for the prevalence of dowry system in modern Kerala Anna Lindberg director of the Swedish South Asian Studies Network SASNET at Lund University has said.
Speaking on the topic Dowry System in Kerala Ms. Lindberg said that communities that did not traditionally practise bride price also practised dowry system today. The seminar was jointly organised by the Centre for Womens Study Womens Cell Sexual Harassment Prevention Cell and the Womens Forum of the University of Kerala.
Today dowry system is much disguised in Kerala and dowry is given as gift to the daughter. The practice is in fact is taken for granted today she said. Ms. Lindberg said that the practice of demanding extended dowry had also increased over the years.
She added that women themselves participated in keeping up the dowry system. Many women I interviewed who were also employed said that the husband needed to be compensated for maintaining the family she said.
Pointing out that the issue of dowry had many ramifications Ms. Lindberg said that the biggest tragedy related to dowry was violence against women.
Ms Lindberg who chronicled around marriages held between and and researched on the practice of dowry in erstwhile Travancore said that traditionally the dowry system was prevalent among the Namboodiri Brahmin and Syrian Christian communities in Kerala. The Nairs being a matrilineal caste did not have the dowry system until the s nor did lower castes and tribal communities she said. In fact the Pulayar caste association abhorred the practice of dowry a hundred years ago Ms. Lindberg said.
She said that the dowry system had a sudden spurt in the s and when money from the Gulf started coming into the State. The disintegration of joint families and emergence of nuclear families that vested the responsibility of maintaining families on individuals also strengthened the dowry system. While initially dowry was introduced to encourage young men to marry and to control the sexuality of men and women today it has become more of a prestige issue for families Ms Lindberg said.
She added that dowry was not a private issue in a democratic country like India but a social evil that needed to be addressed appropriately.
Earlier the seminar was inaugurated by Valsalakumari Land Revenue Commissioner.
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In a role reversal of sorts approximately married men pleaded an end to torture by their wives on International Mens Day yesterday.
The harassed husbands carried banners against the misuse of dowry by their wives as they participated in a rally organised by the Protect India Family Foundation Indian Family Foundation and the Childs Right and Family Welfare from Mulund to Azad Maidan.
Demanding dowry is a crime so is giving it. In a first of its kind in the state a citybased software engineer jailed for taking dowry has filed a case against his wife and inlaws for giving him dowry.
Virag Dhulia who had been imprisoned for two days was later released on bail.
Virag has filed cases against his wife Viral Goda and his inlaws saying they had paid him dowry. Virag separated from his wife within two months of their marriage. Viral and her parents filed a complaint in the Mahadevapura police station saying they had paid Virag Rs lakh as dowry.
Preeti Biyani committed suicide on April by hanging herself. Even though she left a suicide note saying that nobody was responsible her parents alleged that she committed suicide due to dowry harassment.
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The paint on the wall behind her is peeling. She sits in a blue plastic chair in the village womens cooperative. As she looks out the window the afternoon suns rays illuminate the left side of her body. The skin on her face and upper body is mottled paper thin and covered with hyperpigmented scar tissue.
Twenty years ago her husband told her she hadnt paid an adequate dowry threw a bucket of kerosene on her and set her on fire.
Her husband then took her to the hospital. He gave her a choicetell the truth and lose your children or lie so you can see them again. Meera lied.
Meera comes from a small village called Rajokri outside Delhi. It is a rural iron ore worker community of people. She is a statistic who has not been counteda sequestered victim of dowry violence or bride burning.
I witnessed the results of this violence firsthand seven years ago during my surgical rotation at a government hospital in Karnataka as a secondyear medical student. The female burns ward was always full. The smell was unmistakablea combination of betadine silver sulfadiazine and burnt flesh. While dressing wounds I heard stories of women immolated by their husbands or their inlaws because of an inadequate dowry or groom price.
The memory of that ward and the violence that these women suffered never left me. After earning my MPH last spring I returned to India to unearth the stories of dowry violence victims. I traveled to the cities of Delhi and Mumbai and spoke to survivors lawyers NGO workers doctors and patients to try to understand the problem and hopefully find seeds for its solution.
The practice of paying dowries in India is based on ancient tradition. It was originally a Hindu religious requirement in the Manusmriti a text dating to BC that delineated the way of life and laws for Hindus. Among the ancient Hindus presenting gifts to each other during a wedding was a required cultural practice. The daughters father was expected to expensively clothe and bejewel his daughter and a sons father was expected to give the brides family a cow and a bull.
Over time when a woman left for her husbands home she was given money jewelry and property referred to as streedhan to help ensure her financial independence after marriage. However the practice of dowry devolved from a means of financial emancipation for a bride to a modern system of transactions and groom prices says Anjali Dave an associate professor of Womens Studies at the Tata Institute of Social Sciences TISS in Mumbai. The woman has been disallowed control over the finances that she brought with her to the marriage Dave says. Marriage is like a livelihood for todays Indian woman.
During negotiations between the grooms and brides families the price is agreed upon verbally and never as a written contract. The practice of paying a dowry in India was outlawed in . Although the amount is paid to the grooms family at the time of marriage the demands often increase after the bride arrives at her husbands home. If the demands are not met the bride may suffer. The violence ranges from brutal beatings emotional torture withholding money throwing them out of the house keeping them away from their children keeping mistresses openly or in extreme cases burning the wife alive says Savra Subratikaan a helpline worker at a womens rights organization in New Delhi.
The National Crime Records Bureau of India reported dowry deaths in in other words one wife is killed every minutes. However since social and cultural taboos discourage women from reporting cases the cases represent only the tip of a predominantly submerged iceberg.
In New Delhi I met a woman named Pooja who wanted to tell me her story. We met on a Saturday in her office in a sleek multistoried glass building in the heart of New Delhis business district. Pooja sat in her office dressed in a buttondown professional shirt and tailored pants. After looking down at her hands for a few minutes she looked up and smiled. She was ready to tell her story.
In her parents arranged a match for her. She was to be married to one of her distant relatives whom her family had known for the last years. Her fianc was an educated city man with a good job in New Delhi. Pooja was had just completed her masters in business administration at the Indian Institute of Foreign Trade and was working at a prestigious health insurance firm. The wedding was typical of her familys Marwari traditionsloud large and expensive. The joy did not last.
You know girls in India have a dream boy in their head which never becomes a reality says Pooja.
It is common for a bride to move to her inlaws and husbands house after marriage as part of an extended family. Eight days after the wedding Pooja began to feel uneasy entering her new home. Her husband would shout at her for no reason her inlaws would leave her no dinner when she came home from work and eventually her inlaws stopped speaking to her. I never realized what the problem was. I dont like to cause problems she says.
The basis of her problem Pooja found out later was the inadequacy of the dowry that she had brought with her. She learned indirectly through her relatives that her motherinlaw had told them that she hadnt brought sufficient things from her family. She told herself that her husband would support her. But shortly into the marriage as he was driving her to work he threw her out of his car and told her to get her parents to buy her a new car. A person whom you have entrusted your entire life to doing this and abusing you in public makes you feel terrible she says.
Pooja realized that her inlaws had asked for her hand not because she was a suitable bride but because her salary and net worth were high. The entire intention was to extract my salary she says. The jewelry that she had brought with her at the time of marriage was locked away by her motherinlaw. She was made to give up her savings and to be a coborrower for her husbands student loan. In spite of all that she had paid she finally came home one day to find that she had been thrown out of the house. With nowhere else to go she turned to her parents.
Returning to your parents home after marriage is still a big stigma in India she says. But she didnt know what else to do. Fortunately her parents took her back. She had been aware that the dowry issue still existed for many brides in India but she didnt think she an educated city girl would fall victim to it.
When someone is parting with their daughter he is giving you the most precious possession of his life. Why should dowry come into the picture Pooja asks.
The going rate for a dowry in todays Indian marriage market varies according to ones socioeconomic position. Society decides and confirms the dowry rates says Pratibha Gajbhiye a program coordinator with TISS for the rural womens cells in police stations in Maharashtra state. The dowry amount in rural areas depends on the education level of the prospective groom. If the groom is a doctor or engineer the dowry could be lakhs about US to US she says. A yearold village woman in Rajokri proudly announced to me that she had given her daughter a motorcycle half a kilo of gold and a bed as a dowry.
Less wealthy grooms demand smaller dowries but still its a hardship for poor families. Another Rajokri resident told me that the cheapest motorcycle costs INR about USan astronomical price for the average family of five which daily earns about INR US..
So how do parents manage to raise the money People sell land and get bankrupt after marriage notes Dave the TISS professor. Dalit communities lower caste in India lease their sons into bonded labor to get money for their daughters wedding. In Vidarba Maharashtra where cotton farmers were committing mass suicide because of failing crops research found that their debt had accumulated because of the increased price of dowry.
The societal affliction of dowry colors the life of an Indian woman not only at the time of her marriage but throughout her life. A girl is seen as an encumbrance to the family. The birth of the girl child more often than not warrants judiciously saving for her future marriage. Parents take loans sell land and fall into deep debt in order to save for their daughters dowry. Many girls are killed at birth because of the dowrys financial burden.
And for those who survive poor nutrition abuse and illiteracy remain problems in rural areas especially.
Rashmi Misra the founder of a womans empowerment and educationcentered NGO in New Delhi explains how girls are denied food so that their brothers will have enough to eat. They are also discouraged from going to school because they are usually married off early. I remember speaking to two slum girls in Delhi and they said to me Were girls. We dont need to go to school. Only boys should go to school she recalls.
Prospects of emancipation that come from a young girls education are lost making her financially dependent on her future husband.
In talking with Pooja Meera and others I could not understand what would lead a husband or his family members to attempt to kill a bride by burning her.
Both play into the violence. The husband and inlaws after repeatedly abusing the wife ultimately try to kill her and burn her to death so that once she dies the man can marry again and receive a new adequate dowry Anjali told me. Since a huge social stigma is attached to divorce in India she explained some husbands would rather kill their wives than divorce them.
Dowry violence in India is not limited to the uneducated or the poor it infects all socioeconomic strata. Among the wealthy the market value of grooms is paid via cash commodities and property. The richest in Delhi pay for their daughters husband in the form of a Mercedes furnished apartments and hard cash explains Misra.
On July the Times of India reported that a former Miss World winner Yukta Mookhey accused her husband of dowry harassment saying she had only received lakhs US of the crore US that she took as dowry. She told the Times that she left him when he was threatening to take my child away from me was threatening my life.
Less than two weeks later another woman Gitanjali Garg was found dead in a park beaten with sticks and shot three times. She was the wife of an influential and wealthy chief judicial magistrate of Gurgaon a city kilometers south of Delhi. An attempt was made to cover up the case as a suicideleaving Gitanjalis family to ask why she would shoot herself three times if she wanted to commit suicide. The family has now booked a case of dowry violence against Ravneet Garg Gitanjalis husband and his parents.
Meera the victim from Rajokri had done everything she could. She and her family paid a dowry at the time of marriage. She sold her jewelry at her husbands request and even tried to raise more money for him.
When she returned from the hospital six months after her husband immolated her she found him living in their house with another woman. But she has nowhere else to go so she remains there. Her husband periodically throws her out of the house sometimes even in the middle of the night. Every day she lives in fear.
Still she is reluctant to tell the truth about what happened the night he set her on fire. What will my children think of their father and of me What will society say about me she says.
Like Meera many survivors attribute their burns to accidents or attempted suicide. Societal norms the sanctity of marriage and a lack of personal income prevent rural women from telling the truth.
Even when doctors find evidence to support an act of dowry violence many do not report it says Manoj Ahire a senior lecturer and senior surgical resident at the Lokmanya Tilak Municipal Hospital in Mumbai. In many cases doctors find that the pattern of burns does not match the womans claims but they are not expected to report this. In a court of law doctors are only asked to comment on whether the patient was fully conscious and able to make a statement to the police.
When it comes to reporting the crime women face great hurdles. Pooja says she was harassed by female police at the womens cell in New Delhi. They mocked her and told her to withdraw her case because that would be better for her reputation. When she finally filed her First Investigative Report FIR the police delayed taking the case to court.
Pooja told me that she would talk about this issue publicly but doesnt see the point. The law is not on her side and neither is society. I was tormented but my tormentors are allowed to walk away freely. How is this justice she asks.
The legal system in India technically has multiple provisions to deal with dowry giving and the violence associated with it. In the Dowry Prohibition Act made demanding or giving a dowry as a precondition for marriage unlawful. Sections a of the Indian Penal Code IPC decrees that any death of a woman within the first seven years of the marriage will be considered by default to be because of dowry harassment and Section b IPC deals with cruelty against the bride. Both laws were meant to serve as preventive measuresbut the chasm between legal policies and implementation remains large and difficult to cross.
The disconnect between the reality in India and the laws is evident in the construction of the seven year time frame for penalizing dowry crimes. Dave says How was the number seven years in section a arrived at Dowry violence continues throughout a womans married life in many cases.
This is true of Saraswati another resident of Rajokri village. Saraswati was married at the age of and endured physical and mental abuse because of dowry extortion for years. At the end of the years of marriage her husband walked out on her leaving her alone to fend for herself and their three children. How will I go to a lawyer she says I have to work seven days a week for my family to live hand to mouth and going to the courts requires me to take a whole day off from work.
The dowry tradition impacts a womans health through all her life stages. Before birth it comes in the form of sexselective abortions. During the first few years of her life it manifests itself in infanticide malnutrition illiteracy and abuse. As adolescents girls are often overworked and not given opportunities because they are considered a financial burden. Once married many women have to deal with the physical emotional or financial violence that can lead to mental health issues.
So entwined in modern culture so steeped in history the dowry tradition and its toofrequent violence seems almost ineradicable. At the root of dowry violence is the perception of a woman and her worth in India. The ideology of womens subservience permeates all social classes.
It will be impossible to stop dowry violence until there is a substantial shift in gender norms says Vijayendra Rao PhD a lead economist at the World Bank who has worked extensively on dowry violence and gender equity. Providing women with options outside of marriage he argues would form a strong foundation for increasing their social perception in India as one of value. Female education reducing gender discrimination in the workplace and providing child care could be a few steps to help this process along Rao says. The persuasion of community leaders that dowries are bad and unnecessary too will help. Legal and policy reforms are also necessary including the use of special teams in police departments that work to reduce dowry violence he says.
A combination of changing mindsets through persuasion changes in incentives via policy action and outside enforcement of laws is required to stop dowries and violence against women in India Rao says.
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Kumars wife Pratibha a lecturer at a local college had made a complaint under Indias dowry law. The offence would allow for arrest and jailing of him and his parents without investigation.
The couple married in late but Pratibha left the marital home after five days and the marriage was never consummated. Months later she claimed her husband had threatened to kill her if she did not produce a dowry that included a hatchback car and rupees in cash. He has denied the allegations.
I spent six weeks sharing a small prison cell with thieves and murderers said yearold Kumar who was released on bail. They had been convicted of a crime. I was innocent but was treated like a guilty man.
After he agreed to pay in an outofcourt settlement his wife withdrew the charges and the couple divorced this October.
The cautionary tale appears to be part of a trend in middleclass India where male angst is on the rise. Men complain that they have lost their traditional role as providers as women work more. Further women with independent incomes are refusing to submit to the traditional ideal of marriage where an obedient wife accedes to a husbands every wish.
The outcome is an undisguised backlash against Indian feminism and womens rights. One mens organisation is demanding a ministry for men arguing that of taxpayers are men but that no money has ever been allocated for male welfare.
The protection enshrined in Indian law for harassed wives has also led to a deepseated sense of male victimhood. The mens movement in the country has been fired up by what it claims is the legal terrorism driven by radical groups . which has resulted in the blatant violation of mens rights.
Mens groups accept that Indian society has discriminated against women for centuries. But they say it is wrong to use legal measures to correct historical inequalities.
In India arranged marriages are still the norm and dowries are negotiated between families. In an antidowry act came into force to protect brides who were being attacked and in some cases killed by husbands trying to extort money from their families. Those found guilty face up to three years in jail. Up to the start of December this year Delhi police had registered antidowry cases. However the mens movement says the law is being misused by wives. Unscrupulous women they say see the law as a tool to extract as much money as possible from their partners.
Every Saturday in Delhi a group of young professional men gathers to share experiences. They counsel each other over the trauma of systematic abuse by wives.
At the mens meetings lawyers dispense free advice and their nervous clients finger leaflets explaining the ugly reality of dowry law.
Sarkar who works in marketing set up the foundation after his wife filed a false case against him in . I know what it is like not to be able to sleep or work. We want only genderneutral laws not onesided ones.
He talks of government data which show that people were arrested under the antidowry law but only people were convicted. He wants the antidowry offence decriminalised and the threat of jail removed. The change say police and womens groups would mean fewer women coming forward.
This misuse business really is complete rubbish said Indira Jaisingh a supreme court lawyer who successfully lobbied last year for a new domestic violence act in India. From a low conviction rate you cannot conclude a law is wrong. Just look at conviction rates for rape in England which are also low but nobody says rape does not happen.
Jaisingh said that since Indian women still lived in joint family households an antidowry law would need to protect wives from a husband and his family seeking money. The jail option is there because of the violence used by members of the joint family. We probably need more laws for women to ensure for example equitable distribution of property on divorce.
The booming economy has raised the price of wedlock a ritual still governed by the past. In Indian weddings there is widespread acceptance of the inequality between bride givers and bride takers. The brides family according to convention gives to but never takes from the grooms family. In todays India that tends to translate into ever more expensive dowries.
In the merchant class we are seeing open auctions of marriageable men. If your son has a shop in a good location the bride will have to pay m rupees said Virk. Until such mindsets change and that will not be for a long time I cannot see how women need less protection.
The first shots have been fired in Indias gender war. There are about websites committed to promoting the wellbeing of men in India. Mens groups say males are increasingly subject to myriad forms of subtle discrimination in the name of progress.
Some groups cite job insecurity and unemployment as the problem. In the five years to . million men lost their jobs while one million women gained new employment.
On crime too the mens movement is sifting through official statistics to counter claims that women in India bear the brunt of violence though police say that every minutes a crime is committed against a woman in India and there is one dowry death in the country every minutes.
The Save Indian Family Foundation argues that compared with women nearly twice as many married men up to take their own lives being unable to withstand verbal emotional economic and physical abuse.
But on social indicators Indian women are clearly far behind men. Less than half of the women in India can read or write compared with of men. In the past years more than million female foetuses have been aborted.
The male lobby claimed a symbolic victory when the government of India observed an international mens day in November.
The Cooperative Group is offering a m cash dowry to bidders for scores of properties it acquired during its disastrous takeover of Somerfield nearly a decade ago.
Sky News has learnt that the Coop has pledged the sum to a trio of suitors for the real estate portfolio in exchange for a guarantee to keep scores of stores trading for at least three years.
The dowry underlines the determination of the UKs biggest mutual to offload approximately former Somerfield sites the majority of which traded under the nowdefunct brand.
More than of them now operate Cooperative Food while some of the others are leased to other retailers.
The other remaining bidders for the Coop portfolio are Gordon Brothers and Hilco which specialise in acquiring struggling retail businesses.
Richard Pennycook the Coops chief executive launched the sale as part of a wider effort to repair its finances following a .bn loss in which was largely the result of a crisis at its banking arm.
The Coop paid nearly .bn to buy Somerfield in adding around shops to its estate.
The deal was a disaster however saddling the mutual with debt and leading to huge writedowns in the value of the Somerfield business amid intensifying competition in the food retailing industry.
Since the appointment of a new management team at both the Coop Group and its food business its performance has improved markedly.
During the first half of last year the food division recorded overall likeforlike sales growth of . with its convenience estate showing growth of more than .
Sources said the trading stores included in the portfolio being sold were expected to have made a combined profit of just over m for with the net cost of the remaining sites just over m.
An insider added that the dowry was necessary to make a transaction viable but said that even after the cost of that had been factored in the deal would be financially positive for the Coop.
Wm Morrison the UKs fourthbiggest grocer sold its chain of convenience stores last year for about m since when they reopened under the M Local brand.
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A DAY after yearold Himanshi Kashyap was found dead from a gunshot injury her fatherinlaw and BSP Rajya Sabha MP Narendra Kashyap motherinlaw Devendri and husband Sagar were arrested by the Ghaziabad Police.
Three persons have been arrested the victims husband her fatherinlaw who is an MP and her motherinlaw on charges of dowry harassment and dowry death. They were produced before the magistrate and have been sent to judicial custody. Of the six accused three have been arrested. We are ascertaining the role of the other three following which necessary action will be taken said Ghaziabad SSP Dharmendra Singh.
The other accused in case are the BSP MPs younger son Siddharth and two daughters Shobha and Sarita.
Earlier the Rajya Sabha MP and wife were admitted at a local hospital after they complained of chest pain.They were examined by a team of government doctors after which they were discharged and arrested bypolice.
On Wednesday morning Himanshi was found lying in a pool of blood inside a bathroom in the Kashyaps residence in Ghaziabads Sanjay Colony.
The incident came to light after police were alerted by a local hospital that the body of a woman who died of a gunshot wound had been brought there.
According to police the accused have maintained that Himanshi committed suicide by shooting herself in the head and they had not heard the sound of the gunshot.
They have also handed over a licensed revolver to police which they claimed Himanshi had used to shoot herself.
The postmortem report states that the cause of death was the bullet injury on the right side of the victims temple. An FIR under sections of IPC pertaining to dowry harassment and dowry death has been registered at Kavi Nagar police station said Singh.
On Wednesday night Himanshis family members filed a police complaint saying she was being harassed by her inlaws who had demanded a Fortuner car as dowry.
The complaint by the victims uncle stated My niece used to tell us that they beat her up for dowry and they demanded a Fortuner car. My brother and I used to console her. we told her things will be fine since I was going to sell a plot of land to buy the car.
Himanshi and Sagar were married in November and they have a oneyearold son.
Also cases of dowry were registered during the same period of time she said in a written reply on implementation of Dowry Prohibition Act.
As per National Crime Records Bureau data a total number of and cases were registered of dowry deaths in the country during and respectively the Women and Child Development Minister said.
Similarly and cases were registered under Dowry Prohibition Act in the country during and respectively she said. The Minister said all states except Arunachal Pradesh Sikkim Mizoram and Nagaland where the dowry system is not prevalent have appointed Dowry Prohibition Officers.
The government regularly conducts awareness programmes and public campaigns on various laws related to women including Dowry Prohibition Act through workshops fairs cultural programmes seminars training programmes she said. Advertisements are also regularly brought out in print and electronic media to spread awareness on women rights and laws the Minister said.
The tradition of giving a wedding dowry is causing growing division and domestic violence amongst Asian families in Britain and should be banned according to a leading British lawyer.
It is a practice common among Sikhs Hindus Muslims Christians and Buddhists and in India is blamed for the death of thousands of women every year.
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Contrasting with the related concepts such as brideprice and dower dowry is an ancient Indian custom and its existence may well predate records of it. Dowry continues to be expected in some parts of India mainly north with disputes related to it often resulting in domestic violence such as dowry deaths.
The practice of dowry in India continues to be a controversial subject. Some scholars believe dowry was practised in the ancient Indian subcontinent some do not. Historical reports suggest dowry in ancient India was significant and daughters also had inheritance rights which by custom were exercised at the time of their marriage. The Code of Manu also sanctioned dowry and bridewealth in ancient India but dowry was the more prestigious form and associated with the Brahmanic priestly caste.
Dowries originally started as love gifts for the marriages of upper caste individuals but during the medieval period the demands for dowries became a precursor for marriage. The demand for dowries spread to the lower caste and became a prestige issue with the system becoming rigid and expensive. The dowry system became a tool for enhancing family social status and economic worth.
Dowry got more pronounced after the country achieved independence in . Prior to including during the British Raj daughters had no rights to inheritance to their familys wealth. In India gave equal legal status to daughters and sons among Hindu Sikh and Jain families under the Hindu Succession Act. For its Muslim population India granted Sharia derived personal status laws. Ancient vedic scholar Manu described dowry as essentially a payment of cash or gifts from the brides family to the bridegrooms family upon marriage. These days it would include cash jewellery electrical appliances furniture bedding crockery utensils and other household items that helped the newlyweds set up their home.
In the recent decades the expected value of the dowry has risen in northern parts of India such as Punjab Haryana Uttar Pradesh Uttarakhand and Himachal Pradesh. This phenomenon has led to a sharp increase in dowry deaths since the s. A dowry killing occurs when a new wife is murdered by her husband or inlaws if they are unhappy with her rather than sending her back to her parents which would force the inlaws to return the dowry to the brides parents.
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The Dowry Prohibition DP Act states that both giving and accepting dowry is an offence punishable by law and Section of the Act speaks about the penalty for giving or taking dowry. But while cases of husbands and their family members spending time in jail for receiving dowry are dime a dozen rarely if ever has a dowry giver been punished.
In his complaint against his wife and inlaws Padmanabhan a resident of Ulsoor has used the same statements made by his wifes relatives in their complaint against him three years ago. Ulsoor police registered an FIR on April .
In his complaint Padmanabhan states that he was married to R Ashwini on September . His wife had filed a complaint against him on September stating that she was harassed for dowry and that Padmanabhan was paid . grams of gold pieces of silverware and cash of Rs Rs and Rs on January July and July respectively. A case was filed against him under A of the IPC and under Sections and of the Dowry Prohibition Act.
In her complaint Ashwini claimed that she and her family had also given Padmanabhan a suit in dowry. Her brothers statement claimed they had given cash on three occasions. The complaint was filed in the same police station Ulsoor and the complaint and the memo of evidence given by his inlaws are part of the station records. He claims he obtained all the necessary documents from the station through the Right to Information Act.
Padmanabhan is now seeking action against all family members who admitted to giving him dowry. Since offenders and abettors themselves admittedclaimed to have given dowry it is submitted further that all these records and details are already with you Padmanabhan has stated in his complaint.
Speaking to Bangalore Mirror Padmanabhan said My fatherinlaw is a Central government employee. He knows giving dowry is a crime. He along with his family has admitted to giving me dowry. That is the crux of their complaint and police statements against me. They have admitted to committing a crime before a police officer and the police have to take action against those persons. I am only stating what the law says.
When contacted for his reaction Ashwinis father A Ramesh Babu the main accused in Padmanabhans complaint said I have not paid any dowry to him. Only a complaint of harassment for dowry was filed. The police might have changed my statement and added that I paid dowry. I do not know about the complaint filed against me.
AK Mohan Krishna an advocate who specialises in matrimonial disputes and who is unconnected to this case said This is the first time that the police have registered a FIR against the wifes family for giving dowry. If it is only a demand for dowry then only the provision of IPC Section A comes into play. If the wife and her family members have admitted to giving dowry then they have committed a crime under the Dowry Prohibition DP Act. If they have stated that they have given dowry they are clearly pleading guilty here. Though this provision of punishing those who give dowry is in the Act in reality it has never been invoked. The same Act is used to punish husbands and their families who receive dowry. Police usually do not take such complaints. But this case seems to be very promising for men who are accused of taking dowry.
Ulsoor police said He Padmanabhan was jailed on a case of dowry harassment and he has now filed a complaint against his wife and inlaws. We are investigating the case.
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Contrary to popular belief dowry in India is not an ancient tradition. There is no record of dowry in Hindu scriptures. In our early history there existed a fair system that distributed parental wealthy equally between all children both male and female. Daughters were given movable assets like money and jewels at the time of their wedding while sons were given immovable assets like land upon death of senior family members. It speaks volumes about the maturity prevalent in society in those ages with women being given equal rights as men.
The difference between the traditions of those times and today is that during marriage wealth was once given to the bride. In the days when no established communication channels existed the young brides had no easy way to reach back to the parents. Carrying their inheritance with them to their new home gave them a degree of financial freedom and established equal status in the new family.
In the current day and age the word dowry is a taboo. The word is not spoken only practiced. Some call it blessings of the parents while others call it investment in the girls future. The brides parents consider this the price of a well educated and settled boy. The grooms parents consider this as the return of investment on their boys education. Even if one were to treat the entire affair as a business with people seeking a handsome return on investment the brides parents will always post a loss because the money spent on her education is never compensated.
Although the word dowry is never used gifts are often discussed openly during arranged marriage negotiations. Everything from gifts to the grooms relatives to lavish wedding expenditure is agreed before the liaison is fixed. In some communities the brides parents are required to fulfill the unspoken expectations of the grooms family. This is where the problems come in. Dowry places the brides family under an immense financial burden and the grooms parents are sometimes dissatisfied. This dissatisfaction manifests itself in the form of misbehavior toward the bride and her family.
Newspapers published with headlines such as One Woman Is Killed Every Hour For Dowry In India are routinely dismissed as being sensationalist however during there were cases registered under section B of the Indian Penal Code Dowry Death. In and the numbers were similar with and cases respectively. Given that there are approximately hours in a year the headline is not far from the truth.
Most alarming is that these figures represent deaths only and do not include acts of violence where the victim survives. They also do not include acts of non violence including threats or extortion. According to the National Crime Records Bureau India has recorded . lakh cases of cruelty.
If any person after the commencement of this Act gives or takes or abets the giving or taking of dowry he shall be punishable with imprisonment for a term which shall not be less than five years and with the fine which shall not be less than fifteen thousand rupees or the amount of the value of such dowry whichever is more.
The exception and loophole to this law are gifts given to the bride or groom at the time of marriage.
The educated Indian writes essays about the malpractices of dowry in school attends debates on this topic in college and shakes their head every time media reports news of a dowry death. The very same Indian does not oppose the exchange of expensive gifts at their own wedding. In the urban upper class the current dowry mindset is that if it is not demanded it is not dowry. They look down upon those who demand dowry and yet drive the car gifted to them by the brides parents every morning to work. This paradox needs working on. A collective effort by every Indian to understand the impact of the dowry mindset and an attempt to break it. Practice what you preach needs to be the new mantra. If not then we will continue to hear of new and vile ways in which women have been harassed for dowry.
In Barsa Swony Choudhury the then daughter in law of Minister Raghunath Mohanty had filed a complaint against her inlaws alleging torture and dowry demands. The Mohanty family was arrested in March . It took almost a year for the police to file a charge sheet on the Mohanty family. A mere five days after it was filed though Barsa was threatened with acid attacks. Before his resignation Minister Mohanty was holding the portfolios of housing and urban development law and information technology.
Dowry demands are rampant in India irrespective of the social and educational background of the groom. In fact the social stigma associated with demands of dowry has given rise to threats and acid attacks against the women who gather enough courage to report the incidents. In May in Mathura a woman and her brother were subjected to an acid attack. They had just filed a dowry complaint against the womans inaslaws. In the same month a rickshaw puller from Meerut attacked his wife and seven other members of her family with acid over a dowry dispute. The youngest victim of this attack was a six month child. In August a woman was reportedly fed acid by her inlaws over demands of dowry. Outwardly unheard she battled for life as doctors struggled to gauge the extent of her injuries. Her husband and mother in law went into hiding to avoid arrest.
These examples cite that not every case of dowry harassment leads to a dowry death. Mental torture abuse and physical attacks like these compound the problem to an even bigger proportion. The practice of dowry is the biggest reason of female infanticide in India. Parents look at the girl child as a financial burden and do not desire them. It continues to convince future generations too that being borne a woman automatically makes them a liability.
Dowry is not a tradition it is simply greed. All Indians need to be aware of this. The Indian youth of the st century are fighting for the freedom to make their own decision. If they make the collective decision to fight against dowry then this evil would surely be weeded out of our society for good.
A dowry is the money or a property that a woman brings to her husbands family at the time of their marriage. Traditionally dowries in India were meant to ensure that the bride was financially secure after her marriage and were seen as a type of inheritance from the brides parents to the bride. However when the British colonized India this changed. Heavy taxes meant that many families who had sons began to rely on the brides dowry for survival and the husbands family began to extort more and more money from the brides family.
Dowry was officially made illegal in India in with the establishment of the Dowry Prohibition Act but many families among all social classes continue the practice of giving a dowry today. Dowry killings are when a wife is killed because her parents are unable to fulfill all of the demands of the husbands family and these killings are unfortunately extremely common.
In women were killed in dowryrelated deaths. While the number of these deaths declined from when women were killed over dowry disagreements the number of abuse cases related to dowry when a husband and inlaws abuse a bride because her parents fail to pay a sufficient dowry rose from cases in to cases in .
In the s dowry killings were not very common with about killings per year. However with the rise of consumerism in India dowry killings have increased. Now goods and appliances that were originally scarce have become more widely available prompting a wave of greed and increasing the demand for dowry. Families that previously could not have dreamed of being able to afford goods such as cars are now within reach of being able to buy one and they rely on the bride who marries their son to help them fulfill their consumption desires.
Pravartika Gupta and her oneyear old daughter were killed by her inlaws in because Guptas parents were unable to afford the pounds Honda City car and new apartment that had been demanded as a dowry. Guptas case is unfortunately not unique. In yearold Annu Devi and her oneyearold daughter were burned to death by Devis husband and inlaws because her parents were unable to pay the dowry demanded. Many inlaws continue to demand more and more dowry even in the years after their son is married claiming that the dowry will be used to provide for children and pay living expenses throughout the years. Around of bank loans in India are taken in order to meet dowryrelated demands.
Dowry is also the reason for high levels of female feticide in India. Parents kill their female babies in the womb because they do not want to spend their whole lives saving money to pay for their daughters dowry. This has led to a skewed gender ratio in India where there are girls per boys.
In charges were brought in of dowryrelated death cases but only of cases led to convictions. Many husbands and inlaws claim that dowryrelated deaths were suicides in order to escape conviction. Parents of the bride are also sometimes reluctant to bring charges against the husbands family because they do not want to ruin their other daughters chances of marriage.
India has one of the fastest growing middle classes in the world and it has had a female president and a female prime minister. It is now common for women in India to have impressive careers. However India still ranks as the worlds fourth most dangerous country for a woman. If India wishes to really advance it needs to ensure that harmful practices such as dowries are not just legally unacceptable they are also socially unacceptable.
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the society of this practice which demeans women and cheapens the sacredness of marriage
the practice of dowry exists in many countries it has assumed the proportion of a challenge to the forces of modernity and change only in India. Many reasons are put forward for explaining this practice. It is said that a dowry is meant to help the
have spent in educating and upbringing their son. These explanations may seem logical in the present day context but they cannot explain how this practice originated. A search for the origins of dowry would have to move backwards into antiquity. Discussion about dowry has to take into account the less prevalent practice of bride price which is but a reversal or dowry. Although it may not be possible to ascertain when and where these practices originated it can be supposed that dowry and bride price are posterior to the institution of monogamy. This is the same as saying that dowry and bride price came into
animal promiscuity. Mans is the only species practicing monogamy all other species are promiscuous. Thus it is a logical corollary that Mans institution of monogamy came into being at sometime in the long evolution of his species. The practice of monogamy itself evolved in stages as is evident from historical anecdotes as in the Mahabharata where the
combinations monogamy became the established system. As long as promiscuity existed there was no question of dowry or bride price. The origin of these two practices could be linked up with the discarding of promiscuity in favour of Polygamy and Polyandry. These two forms of marriage are themselves mutual opposites. While in polygamy there is pairing between one male and multiple women and polyandry is the pairing of one woman with multiple men.
possibly owe their origin to polygamy and polyandry. The formation of polygamous and polyandrous forms of marriage could have been made necessary by changes in the demographic balance between the sexes. A rise in the number of females as compared to that of males is a congenial situation for the emergence of polygamy. Mere the chances of more than one female member of society being in wedlock with one male member are more.
compared to males many female members would have to be deprived of marital life. The obligation to get more than one female member into wedlock with one male member could have been the situation which gave birth to dowry as a price exacted by the male and his family
The origin of brideprice could have taken place in opposite circumstances where the sex ratio favoured females and as there was a large number of males for every female
different situations which gave birth to dowry and brideprice. These factors can be identified with more certainty. In India s context these practices can be seen to be a result of the dialectics of our caste system. The conflict of opposing tendencies of the caste hierarchy as we know have resulted in endogamy preventing intermarriage between members of different castes. A reason for the origin of dowry and brideprice can also he seen in the same conflict. Hence discussion on these two practices would have to be
Dowry DahejHunda as we all know is paid in cash or kind by the brides family to the groom s family alongwith the giving away of the bride Kanyadanam. The ritual of A reason for the origin of dowry could perhaps be that the groom and his family had to take up the onerous responsibility of supporting the bride for the rest of her life.
Brideprice on the other hand involves the receipt of presents in cash or kind by the brides family in return for giving away of the bride. Hence brideprice has the
prevalent among the tribals Vaishyas and Shudras whereas dowry was prevelent amongst Brahmins and Kshatriyas. We can only conjecture as to why this curious combination could
labour and menial work. The coming of a bride into the family meant an increase in the number of members who could work along with other members and become a source of income for the family. While the family from where the bride came sufferred the loss of one earning member. Hence a brideprice was paid to the brides parents to compensate for
them and no manual labour was assigned. A marriage meant an additional member who was to be supported and hence was a burden on the grooms family as the bride did not go out to earn and contribute to the family income. Thus a dowry was collected to provide the additional burden resulting from a brides entry into the grooms family.
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Western men generally of Indian extraction come to rural India marry local women and then leave them behind with a promise to return. The women who are then disgraced in their communities are knows as holiday brides.
The tradition of giving a wedding dowry is causing growing division and domestic violence amongst Asian families in Britain and should be banned according to a leading British lawyer.
It is a practice common among Sikhs Hindus Muslims Christians and Buddhists and in India is blamed for the death of thousands of women every year.
Family members of Munish Dalal who were acquitted by a Noida court after being accused by Nisha Sharma in a dowry case said they have just been handed their freedom after a tenyearlong ordeal.
Nisha a resident of Sector in Noida had hit the headlines in May after she refused to marry her groom for allegedly demanding lakh as dowry and a car on the day of the marriage.
Following her complaint Munish his mother Vidya and his paternal aunt Savitri Sharma were arrested. The Noida court acquitted the Dalals on Wednesday.
Munishs yearold widowed mother the only earning member of the family lost her job as a teacher in a government school after the incident.
My mother gave years of her life to the governments education department. She had also represented India in hockey. But she was put behind bars for no reason. Her career came to an abrupt end and even her retirement benefits were withheld an anguished Munish said.
And if this wasnt enough ignominy the government incorporated the incident in NCERT textbooks that is still taught to children in Class VI.
The names of my mother and me were put in government textbooks as if we are the worst criminals in the country. The chapter says how my family was turned back for demanding dowry Munish said.
I was to get married on the evening of May . The next morning I was in jail. You can well imagine my state of mind he added.
My elderly mother and yearold aunt had to travel km to Noida for the hearings. In the last nine years we went to the court at least times whereas Nishas family was in court on hardly ten days.
Minutes before her wedding ceremony was about to be concluded Nisha Sharmas father was allegedly asked for more dowry money.
Reports suggested the marriage in had nearly been solemnised with guests about to begin dinner when the grooms family allegedly demanded lakh in car and cash. The yearold decided to say no which quickly lead to a scuffle between the families forcing Sharma to call the cops.
The groom and his mother were later arrested and Sharma shot to fame as a rare example of a young woman willing to say no to dowryseekers.
Sharmas act would also be repeated by a number of other women who said they had been inspired by her story. Police later charged the groom and his mother with subjecting a woman to cruelty in connection with a dowry demand.
Both parties have moved on since then. While Nisha got married a few months after the incident Munish got married to a simple girl in at a temple in Delhi. And he didnt take any dowry Munish added.
It was preplanned. Nishas father D.D. Sharma placed a matrimonial ad in a newspaper February the day when she and Navneet Rai allegedly got married at a temple. Sharma knew of Nishas alleged affair but still put the adVidya said recalling their ordeal.
According to her the baraat was stopped at the entrance to the wedding venue on May the fateful day. Nishas father apologising profusely said he hadnt been able to arrange rooms for the grooms wedding party. And Sharma didnt take any steps to remedy the situation even when Vidya told him that they had been insulted.
While they were on their way home they got to know that the Sharmas had lodged an FIR for dowry against them she said.
My son was arrested at six the next morning and I was arrested a few hours later. We spent two months behind bars Vidya added.
Their counsel Naresh Chand Gupta said they would file for damages against Nishas family. R.K. Rai the father of Navneet with whom Nisha was said to be in a relationship too said they would seek damages from the Sharma family.
Later an affidavit surfaced before the media stating that Nisha had married Navneet at a temple on February . Nisha however denied in the court that the affidavit was signed by her. Nishas father said they would appeal against the courts order.
A case of dowry torture has been lodged against beautician Shahnaz Hussain in Patna.
The case was lodged on the directive of a Patna court following a petition of Rabiya Hussain widow of Shahnazs only son Sameer Hussain who died recently under mysterious circumstances.
The court has directed the police to lodge a case of dowry torture under Section A of the IPC against Shahnaz Hussain and to investigate into the case a subinspector in Patnas Gandhi Maidan police station told rediff.com on Saturday.
Rabiya who has filed a page complaint petition in the chief judicial magistrates court Patna said Shahnaz tortured her when she was pregnant for the first time.
She said that unbearable torture forced her to leave Shahnazs house and return to her parents house in Patna.
Rabiya also charged that when she visited Delhi after her husband committed suicide to collect her belongings which were given in dowry at the time of her marriage she was ill treated and denied rights to her belongings on the order of Shahnaz.
She alleged that her motherinlaw Shahnaz is solely responsibly for her husband Sameer Hussains suicide in Patna on January .
According to sources Rabiya in her petition said that her husband Sameer committed suicide due to stress and tension created by Shahnaz.
Rabiya pointed out that Sameer was under depression since his mother Shahnaz married a man soon after the death of his father.
She further stated that when Sameer opposed the second marriage of Shahnaz he was dropped from Shahnazs business empire and properties.
Last month the Bihar government recommended a CBI probe into the death of yearold Sameer.
Earlier Shahnaz said that her son Sameer was neither depressed nor an alcoholic.
She also denied any rumour of her son being angry following her second marriage to noted entrepreneur R K Puri as suggested by Sameers fatherinlaw and advocate Mahfooz Alam.
A CONTEMPORARY liberal interpretation can be applied to numerous articles of the major international human rights treaties to argue that the prohibition of domestic violence is implied in those instruments and its violation will constitute the breach of the right to freedom from torture. For example article of the Universal Declaration of Human Rights provides for right to life liberty and security. A violation of this article occurs when women experience domestic violence. This is because in that situation they suffer from an arbitrary deprivation of life lose their liberty and lack security. Article states that no one shall be subjected to torture or to cruel inhuman or degrading treatment or punishment. Further article of the International Covenant on the Civil and Political Rights requires state parties to protect an individual from these forms of violence. Read together these provisions announce a legal framework for the prohibition of domestic violence. The implied sense and a close examination of objectives of these provisions essentially uphold the protection of women against violence regardless of the public or the private. No one shall be subjected to torture as specified in article of the human rights declaration neither belongs exclusively to any gender nor indicates any private or public.
Beyond these domestic violence has dominated numerous resolutions reports and recommendations of the convention and conferences respectively under the UN system that unequivocally recognise that it causes deprivation of womens rights and move the issue from the private to public responsibility. The following discussion explains how domestic violence shares a common experience with torture and why it should thereby warrant similar legal weight and remedies as the officially recognised torture does.
Firstly in most cases verbal or physical assault ranging from swearing beating kicking and the infliction of pain through various objects such as rods sticks and knives to death are repeatedly practised on women in Bangladesh who fail to meet the dowry demands of their inlaws. Such violence can reasonably be characterised as having the required severe physical or psychological pain and having similar effects on the victims of dowry. Forcing women to satisfy dowry in this manner creates a state of panic in mind. This state of panic keeps those women under constant mental pressure and in vulnerable situations coupled with a fear of further physical assault. This particular state constitutes mental suffering. In a similar situation to dowry violence it was found that battering produced a state of depression anxiety dependency and passivity among victims when they felt helpless to leave abusive relationships. The repeated violence of domestic abuse gradually destroys the victims mental capability to function independently and to resist that in turn increases their further vulnerability. This type of conduct produces the manipulation through stress of mind in much the same way as torture.
Secondly with the husbands explicit desire to earn dowry money threats and physical assault are recurrently committed on the unwilling women. Cruel treatment appears to be unnecessary where women deliberately want to help their domestic partners. Mental or physical assault thus implies the presence of some sort of undue force and that force exhibits an explicit intentional mala fides. Thirdly the dowryrelated repression originates with a specific purpose. The purpose is to obtain money or valuables and the inability of the women to satisfy this purpose results in cruel treatment or death. Fourthly in the present case the state is actively involved through enacting inter alia the Dowry Prohibition Act to protect women against dowry violence. The states passivity results from its failure to implement the dowry law or to remove the flaws in the law as required especially by the articles of the CEDAW. It fulfils the requirement of the fourth element of torture.
Furthermore Culliton concludes that even if a particular domestic violence case does not reach the level of torture international legal instruments prohibit cruel inhuman or degrading treatment or punishment. This prohibition is also part of fundamental human rights and customary international human rights law. Thus it can be summed up that the physical and emotional assaults involved in a dowry satisfy the standard of abuse required by torture. The following section further emphasises the issue to provide domestic violence with the explicit recognition of torture.
Dowry refers to property cash or goods given to the bridegroom as a consideration of marriage. The Dowry Prohibition Act defines dowry as any property or valuable security given or agreed to be given either directly or indirectly by one party to a marriage by another party at any time before or after the marriage as a consideration of marriage. Originally dowry is a concept of Hindu law. In Hindu law unlike Muslim law marriage is a sacrament instead of a civil contract. Under this law women were not entitled to inherit property from their parents families. To compensate for this discrimination at the time of marriage women were voluntarily given some properties in kind or cash by their parents within their financial capacity. These properties constituted womens Stridhan womens property and reverted back to them in the event of termination of the marriage.
Among the lower caste the bride price a small amount of money was given to the brides family by the grooms family as a compensation for the loss of their daughter. However the contemporary perception of dowry as practiced in Bangladesh has no resemblance to the original concept. Over the course of time its voluntary nature has been transformed into a compulsion on the family of the bride. In recent years dowry has become an essential part of nearly every marriage and is obtained through applying constant coercion or pressure on the newly wedded women.
A number of factors such as traditional culture an unequal power relation between men and women the growing unemployment problem among young men and commercialisation of marriage contribute to the persistence of dowry despite legislative initiatives to eliminate it. The patriarchal society in Bangladesh acknowledges mens superiority over women. To establish this superiority men preferably receive family supports and attention in favour of developing their independent and productive careers. Consequently the bargaining power and rating of dowry depend on the level of educational and occupational status of the groom. This social practice eventually creates economic dependence and powerlessness of women and portrays them as an unproductive burden for the family. Thus womens staying in the parental home at the marriageable age or after is not welcome.
Another concern is about the virginity of women before they are married. Parents have to face a severe consequence with their adult daughters when scandal regarding their chastity ensues within the community. It becomes highly unlikely to find suitable grooms for those women. Within this social organisation parents try desperately to arrange a marriage at any cost even beyond their means and to provide some sort of incentives to have a qualified soninlaw so that the daughters life is better provided for.
The special attention from both sides develops the superfluous ego a feeling of power among grooms families that help dowry transform into a demand. Apart from this the decline in moral values and greed for the improved life make marriage a commercial transaction. In recent times marriage began to lose its sanctity and is used as a means of making money in which more value is given to property and cash money than that of the bride herself. As one of the potential means to change fate even a poor uneducated man may exploit a brides family. In numerous instances the grooms dowry demand does not match with the annual income and wealth of the brides father. On some occasions a ticket to the Middle East to find a job is demanded as dowry. The richer section of the country has also made a significant contribution to the present dimension of dowry. It offers luxury items ranging from ornaments to land properties from furniture and home appliances to arranging a grand formal gathering. It serves to display their wealth and status in the society on the one hand and to encourage young men to nurture dowry on the other. In this way the socioeconomic and cultural factors encourage the continuation of dowry in Bangladesh.
The Dowry Prohibition Act is the primary law of the country to deal with dowry. It makes dowry a criminal offence punishable with a maximum penalty of one year imprisonment or with a fine of Tk . or with both. The act is concerned with a series of issues including punishment for demanding or taking and giving dowry and its investigation and trial proceedings. Under section of the act a magistrate of the first class is empowered to try the dowry offence.
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PAYMENT of dowry referred to as Lobola by a man who wants to marry a woman in most African societies is one of the things that constitutes marriage under customary law.
However emphasis by the courts of law to validate marriage based on payment of dowry has become a source of concern to some women.
This is because many marriages in Zambia come about as a result of unplanned pregnancies.
In such cases men and women start to live together without any formal arrangement or payment a situation which is referred to as cohabiting.
As long as a relationship between a man and a woman does not involve payment of dowry courts do not regard such as marriage.
According to Women for Change WfC couples that opt out of relationships where dowry is not paid often fail to share property.
When a couple divorces all the property in the house remains with the man because no dowry was paid.
Not paying a woman compensation after divorce and dismissal of cases deemed to be cohabiting by the courts even after a couple had been living together for many years is what makes the law regarding dowry payment unfair towards women.
In the Zambian context the payment of dowry provides strong evidence that a man is committed to be in wedlock with a woman.
Payment of dowry shows that the importance of a woman has been appreciated by a man.
It is a demonstration by the man to the family of the woman that he is committed to marrying her and providing for her.
A man who cannot pay dowry is deemed to be lazy and incapable of providing for his own household.
But to put things in context dowry is not limited to Zambian tribes or cultural groupings.
The Encyclopaedia Britannica says dowry has a long history in Europe South Asia Africa and other parts of the world.
The encyclopaedia says dowry is most common in cultures that are strongly patrilineal were women are expected to reside with or near their husbands family patrilocality.
For example in India dowry is a form of money goods or estate that a woman takes to her husband or his family in marriage.
One of its basic functions is to serve as a form of protection for the woman or wife against the very real possibility of ill treatment by her husband and his family.
The dowry used in this way is actually a conditional gift that is supposed to be restored to the wife or her family if the husband divorces abuses or commits other grave offenses against her.
Land and precious metals have often been used in this form of dowry and are frequently inalienable by the husband though he might otherwise use and profit from them during the marriage.
In addition to that dowry sometimes serves to help a new husband to discharge the responsibilities that go with marriage.
In some societies dowry provides the wife with a means of support in case of her husbands death. In this latter case the dowry may be seen as a substitute for her inheritance of all or part of her husbands estate.
In many Indian societies dowries have served as a reciprocal gesture by the brides kin to the grooms kin for the expenses incurred by the latter in payment of bride wealth.
These exchanges are not purely economic but instead serve to ratify the marriage and consolidate
The encyclopedia further gives an example of medieval and Renaissance Europe where dowry frequently served not only to enhance the desirability of a woman for marriage but also to build the power and wealth of great families and even to determine the frontiers and policies of states.
In South Asia for instance parents of the groom have sometimes demanded compensation for their sons higher education and future earnings which the bride would ostensibly share says the encyclopedia.
In the Zambian scenario different tribes and cultural groupings look at dowry in terms of animals a sum of money or other gifts paid prior to a wedding.
The Tonga people of Southern Province normally ask for cattle from men who want to marry their women or daughters.
Among the Bemba people in Northern and Munchinga provinces dowry is paid by men for their brides.
The payment is in form of money and other gifts like goats and farming implements among them.
It is paid to appreciate the hard work that the parents of the pride put in raising and grooming the bride who is supposed to look after her husband once the two are married.
With the coming of modernity most Zambian tribes and families are quantifying all dowry related requirements in monetary terms.