Allow building with external dependencies

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Is your feature request related to a problem? Please describe.
I use triton as a shared library
I have a c++ project that already uses gRPC.
Currently the triton core build always fetch and build grpc from scratch (which take quite some time).
I'd like to specify dependecies like re2 absl grpc as external, since my project already includes them.

Describe the solution you'd like
I would like triton to provide build arguments similar to how grpc does it, e.g -DgRPC_ABSL_PROVIDER=package