Add ability to control deployment topology using affinity and tolerations

[ajitspendse]

Description:
Current helm charts do not allow for defining affinity, antiAffinity or tolerations limiting the control over deployment topology in most of the kubernetes installations.

Suggested Labels:
Enhancement

Suggested Assignees:

Affected Product Version:
4.2.x

OS, DB, other environment details and versions:
Kubernetes > v1.28.x
Helm > 3.x

Steps to reproduce:

1. Run helm install and observe pod scheduling

Related Issues:
NA