eslint: Enable more react rules (#39421)

* `react-hooks/exhaustive-deps`: Apply to `useSelect`.
* `react/no-direct-mutation-state`
* `react/no-find-dom-node`
* `react/no-unescaped-entities`

The first of those accounts for the majority of fixes in this PR, we had
a bunch of places either missing a dependency or specifying a dependency
unnecessarily. Of particular note is that constants defined outside of
the `render()` function, like `STORE_ID`, don't need to be dependencies.

Of the rest, `react/no-direct-mutation-state` was only violated in one
place, `react/no-unescaped-entities` in one storybook story, and
`react/no-find-dom-node` was already fixed everywhere.

Committed via a GitHub action: https://github.com/Automattic/jetpack/actions/runs/11261999141

Upstream-Ref: Automattic/jetpack@f2c8bd3

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+<?php return array('dependencies' => array('jetpack-script-data', 'react', 'react-jsx-runtime', 'wp-components', 'wp-compose', 'wp-data', 'wp-element', 'wp-i18n', 'wp-primitives', 'wp-url'), 'version' => 'ad66694505b56e5daaf7');

jetpack_vendor/automattic/jetpack-my-jetpack/build/index.asset.php

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+<?php return array('dependencies' => array('jetpack-connection', 'jetpack-script-data', 'react', 'react-jsx-runtime', 'wp-api-fetch', 'wp-components', 'wp-compose', 'wp-data', 'wp-date', 'wp-element', 'wp-i18n', 'wp-polyfill', 'wp-primitives', 'wp-url'), 'version' => 'a00dd480dcda312e75e8');

jetpack_vendor/automattic/jetpack-search/build/dashboard/jp-search-dashboard.asset.php

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+<?php return array('dependencies' => array('jetpack-connection', 'jetpack-script-data', 'react', 'react-jsx-runtime', 'wp-components', 'wp-compose', 'wp-data', 'wp-date', 'wp-element', 'wp-i18n', 'wp-polyfill', 'wp-primitives', 'wp-url'), 'version' => '12affa0b12fd7b5a0a81');