Bump pgjbdc version to prevent CVE from being passed in Proxy

[linghengqian]

Fixes https://github.com/apache/shardingsphere/security/dependabot/77 .

Changes proposed in this pull request:

• Bump pgjbdc version to prevent CVE-2024-1597 from being passed in Proxy. Synchronously update the dependencies involved in example. It seems that dependabot has some issues and it does not open PRs for dependencies with full CVE scores.
  • Fixes https://github.com/apache/shardingsphere/security/dependabot/76 .
  • Fixes Bump snakeyaml from 1.33 to 2.0 in /examples #24450 . See CVE-2022-1471.
• As part of streamlining the content of Migrate from Jakarta EE 8 to Jakarta EE 9 #27976, updating narayana will be independently moved onto this PR.

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