Onboarding ADOT Java to v2.x - with otel v2.10.0 (NOT READY)

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Description of changes:
Onboarding ADOT Java to v2.x, with the latest opentelemetry-java-instrumentation dependency is version v2.10.0. And upgrade the workflows, adot core implementation codes, contract tests and smoke tests with following change:
A. Workflows:

1. Update .github/patches/opentelemetry-java-instrumentation.patch file with the same code change as previous patch based on upstream v2.10.0.
2. Upgrade contract testing build env with JDK 23.

B. Core repo:

1. Upgrade com.github.johnrengelman.shadow to com.gradleup.shadow as it has been marked under maintenance mode: https://github.com/GradleUp/shadow?tab=readme-ov-file#gradle-shadow
2. Upgrade to new ktlint version 1.4.0, and apply latest spotless format.
3. Upgrade gradle to 8.10
4. Upgrade com.diffplug.spotless to newer version 6.25.0
5. Upgrade com.google.cloud.tools.jib to newer version 3.4.4
6. Update the unit test to check the migrated semantic conventions.

C. Contract tests:

1. Use the latest kotlin("jvm") version to be compatible if the new Java class from upstream.
2. Add OTEL_EXPORTER_OTLP_PROTOCOL to grpc for instrumentation as in version v2.0.0:

The default OTLP protocol has been changed from grpc to http/protobuf in orderto align with the specification.

3. Update the test classes to migrate to the new semantic conventions to match with upstream latest change:
   a. All the change made in Support new semantice conventions. #972
   b. extra semantic conventions included in contract tests:
   messaging.kafka.destination.partition -> messaging.destination.partition.id
messaging.message.payload_size_bytes -> messaging.message.body.size
   c. Remove network.protocol.name attribute check as it has marked as Conditionally required if not http and network.protocol.version is set: https://opentelemetry.io/blog/2023/http-conventions-declared-stable/#summary-of-changes.
   d. Conditionally check peer.service for http client. Match with PR: https://github.com/open-telemetry/opentelemetry-java-instrumentation/pull/12083/files
   e. Remove local socket attributes from http server span check as it is not extracted from HttpServerAttributesExtractor (code),
   f. Remove http.response.header.content_length as it need an explicit configuration: https://opentelemetry.io/docs/specs/semconv/attributes-registry/http/#http-response-header

D. Smoke tests
https://opentelemetry.io/docs/zero-code/java/agent/disable/#suppressing-controller-andor-view-spans

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