feat(database): implement order-independent equality for Reverts #4432

Job	Run time
clippy	1m 22s
check	29s
check no_std	30s
check no_std kzg-rs	36s
docs	1m 11s
check serde	28s
test stable --no-default-features	1m 3s
check std	24s
test stable	51s
TyposCheck	7s
test stable --all-features	1m 14s
test beta --no-default-features	1m 26s
test beta	54s
fmt	19s
test beta --all-features	1m 17s
test nightly --no-default-features	1m 33s
test nightly	48s
test nightly --all-features	1m 11s
	15m 43s

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