b/349170185 Backport fixes

[jolivier23]

DAOS-16039 object: fix EC aggregation wrong peer address (#14593)
DAOS-16009 rebuild: fix O_TRUNC file size related handling
DAOS-15056 rebuild: add rpt to the rgt list properly (#13862)
DAOS-15517 rebuild: refine lock handling for rpt list (#14064)
DAOS-13812 container: fix destroy vs lookup (#12757)
DAOS-15627 dtx: redunce stack usage for DTX resync to avoid overflow (#14189)
DAOS-14845 rebuild: do not wait for EC agg for reclaim (#13610)

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[github-actions]

Bug-tracker data:
Errors are component not formatted correctly,Ticket number prefix incorrect,PR title is malformatted. See https://daosio.atlassian.net/wiki/spaces/DC/pages/11133911069/Commit+Comments,Unable to load ticket data
https://daosio.atlassian.net/browse/b/349170185

[daosbuild1]

LGTM. No errors found by checkpatch.