Add a setting for batch_join_timeout #18109

Job	Run time
Dataset Config Validation	24s
detect what files changed	4s
pre-commit hooks	28s
Linting - Rust	2m 34s
mypy typing	1m 11s
Publish Snuba to DockerHub	0s
self-hosted-end-to-end	21m 49s
Build snuba CI image	9m 15s
Front end tests for snuba admin	51s
sentry (0)	5m 24s
Tests and code coverage (test)	9m 56s
sentry (1)	5m 14s
Tests on multiple clickhouse versions (23.8.11.29.altinitystable)	10m 10s
Tests and code coverage (test_rust)	4m 42s
sentry (2)	5m 14s
Tests and code coverage (test_distributed)	17m 42s
sentry (3)	5m 15s
Tests and code coverage (test_distributed_migrations)	2m 29s
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