Calc Error Extension

[teubert]

Simple error to calc error MSE where it now gives a "penalty" for the model going unstable before completing sim. The result is that parameter estimation first finds parameters that will be able to complete prediction, then it will refine them.

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[kjjarvis]

Nice addition of penalty in MSE calculation