pass around preload rules in acl wrapper instead of relying on the cache

[icewind1991]

Since the cache is intentionally limited in size (for memory reasons), it doesn't "work" for large folders or when you have a lot of groupfolders with acl enables.

This adds some more manual passing of preloaded rules around to avoid the need to rely on the generic cache in those cases.

[icewind1991]

/backport to stable27

[icewind1991]

/backport to stable26

[icewind1991]

/backport to stable25

[backportbot-nextcloud]

The backport to stable26 failed. Please do this backport manually.

# Switch to the target branch and update it
git checkout stable26
git pull origin stable26

# Create the new backport branch
git checkout -b fix/foo-stable26

# Cherry pick the change from the commit sha1 of the change against the default branch
# This might cause conflicts. Resolve them.
git cherry-pick abc123

# Push the cherry pick commit to the remote repository and open a pull request
git push origin fix/foo-stable26

More info at https://docs.nextcloud.com/server/latest/developer_manual/getting_started/development_process.html#manual-backport

[backportbot-nextcloud]

The backport to stable25 failed. Please do this backport manually.

# Switch to the target branch and update it
git checkout stable25
git pull origin stable25

# Create the new backport branch
git checkout -b fix/foo-stable25

# Cherry pick the change from the commit sha1 of the change against the default branch
# This might cause conflicts. Resolve them.
git cherry-pick abc123

# Push the cherry pick commit to the remote repository and open a pull request
git push origin fix/foo-stable25

More info at https://docs.nextcloud.com/server/latest/developer_manual/getting_started/development_process.html#manual-backport