kafka(ticdc): sarama do not retry if produce message failed to prevent out of order (#11870)

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This is an automated cherry-pick of #11870

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #11935

What is changed and how it works?

• config.Net.MaxOpenRequest is set to 1
• config.Producer.Retry.Max is set to 0, to disable the internal retry mechanism

The root cause of the out-of-order message problem comes from the sarama internal bug, cannot be easily fixed, this is a workaround solution, by set the retry.max to 0, to disable the retry.

Check List

Tests

• Unit test
• Integration test

This is tested by an internal E2E test, which inject network partition between the random cdc node and random kafka server. Before this PR, the test case cannot be passed, and we found out-of-order message by reading consumer log, after this PR it can be passed, and no out-of-order message.

Questions

Will it cause performance regression or break compatibility?

Do you need to update user documentation, design documentation or monitoring documentation?

Release note

fix the sarama retry caused out-of-order message by set retry count to 0 as a workaround

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