Correct gossipsub mesh and connected peer inconsistencies #18889

Job	Run time
Check for 'skip-ci' label	1s
check-msrv	5m 4s
check-code	9m 10s
lockbud	13m 55s
target-branch-check	1s
cargo-udeps	7m 22s
cli-check	13m 42s
beacon-chain-tests	37m 28s
basic-simulator-ubuntu	21m 2s
compile-with-beta-compiler	13m 25s
debug-tests-ubuntu	11m 28s
ef-tests-ubuntu	19m 2s
execution-engine-integration-ubuntu	12m 49s
fallback-simulator-ubuntu	18m 38s
network-tests	24m 56s
release-tests-ubuntu	32m 17s
op-pool-tests	22m 15s
release-tests-windows	45m 4s
slasher-tests	3m 43s
state-transition-vectors-ubuntu	9m 26s
test-suite-success	6s
	5h 20m 54s

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